Well just got the call. And none of them made it. They kept checking to see if anything got better over the course of the week and none were able to be frozen and none were able to be tested. Iโm feeling absolutely defective and sad. I have no idea what our next steps will be.
Well just got the call. And none of them made it. They kept checking to see if anything got better over the course of the week and none were able to be frozen and none were able to be tested. Iโm feeling absolutely defective and sad. I have no idea what our next steps will be.
Well just got the call. And none of them made it. They kept checking to see if anything got better over the course of the week and none were able to be frozen and none were able to be tested. Iโm feeling absolutely defective and sad. I have no idea what our next steps will be.
Thanks you guys! I sobbed last night. We are visiting family in the Midwest and we had just finished up dinner when we got the call. My dr said everything was going so well as far as egg retrieval, fertilization and then everything bottomed out. Iโll have a follow up appointment when we get back. For now, I donโt think we will do anything. I have to decide at some pint of I will get a hysterectomy in the near future, but the thought of that makes me feel even more broken and incomplete. But at the same time I had to miss work several times last year because of my period. Itโs awful.
If nothing happens and we move on i would like to swim more and train for some long distance open water swims. I did a lot of swimming last summer before we even knew IVF was a possibility and it brings so much joy to my life, Iโve been swimming this summer, just not as much. Itโs obviously taken a back seat.
I just feel defective. I wish this process was easier. Science is amazing, but Mother Nature can be a real bitch.
You don't need to make any future plans right now. This is devastating and take time to grieve and regroup. Someone here mentioned that the line in the Sand moves frequently when it comes to IVF and no one would blame you for shifting it after this news. But I do really like your idea of focusing on what you enjoy and how your life could look moving forward with various choices.
You don't need to make any future plans right now. This is devastating and take time to grieve and regroup. Someone here mentioned that the line in the Sand moves frequently when it comes to IVF and no one would blame you for shifting it after this news. But I do really like your idea of focusing on what you enjoy and how your life could look moving forward with various choices.
I'm just so sorry.
I echo that you donโt need to think about whatโs next right now. Just let yourself be sad and grieve this loss. You donโt need to make any decisions right now. Huge hugs to you.
Well just got the call. And none of them made it. They kept checking to see if anything got better over the course of the week and none were able to be frozen and none were able to be tested. Iโm feeling absolutely defective and sad. I have no idea what our next steps will be.
Iโm so sorry. I did see a thread on ML where you mentioned considering donor eggs. We used an egg donor so if you ever want to talk through that, please reach out. Iโm happy to just listen or share my experience.
Well just got the call. And none of them made it. They kept checking to see if anything got better over the course of the week and none were able to be frozen and none were able to be tested. Iโm feeling absolutely defective and sad. I have no idea what our next steps will be.
Iโm so sorry. I did see a thread on ML where you mentioned considering donor eggs. We used an egg donor so if you ever want to talk through that, please reach out. Iโm happy to just listen or share my experience.
Thank you! We have a follow up with our dr and weโll ask about egg donors. If I have any questions Iโll let you know.