Hugs styme46, its the 5 year anniversary for my Dads passing on the 22nd. This is the first year I am going home for Christmas since then and I am not loving it. I mean, it is good, and I feel like I need to go, but I also have a weird bit of dread about it. Its hard stuff, and I imagine harder still with kids and all that.
Post by litskispeciality on Dec 5, 2019 18:09:11 GMT -5
Soccermama I gwt it, I was there last year, but I'd also be pissed to see 180 withdrawn, esp if I called the bank to fight it, although he should ask you first. Trust me I get not wanting to take all of his stress, but it could be worse later.
I'm full of them today. My office has a 2 person in thr office at all times policies, which for saftey reasons makes total sense. Yesterday my boss said she was coming in at 8am today (normally a 9am start). I should have said something becaise shes the other "late" Thursday person, like are you doing a 10 hour day, but didn't process. Anyway she left early for something. Comes normal quittin' time for everyone else and I'm alone. Someone offered to pick up their kid and come back to cover, but I said no, I'd be pissed to help out with no notice. Our bigger boss walks by 20 mins later to say goodnight, comes in to ask who's with me and tells me to go home. Now I'm overanalyzing if I should text my boss and let her know, or tell her in the morning? I'm sure this will end up that I "knew" we had no coverage and to shift my hours, or to work with someone else for coverage. I just hate confrontation and don't want anyone in trouble. I was trying to stay one hour alone and keep quiet so no one got in trouble.
Holidays after a family loss are super hard. 7 years later I still hurt. (((HUGS))) yo you both.
I got my car towed this morning. I have not told anyone yet because I'm upset and feel kind of stupid about it. It was my fault but it still sucks ($180 later, ugh). I was helping as a chaperone for DS field trip downtown, I was running late because I had to do a ton of shit this morning for the kids (DH on shift), got downtown and tried to find parking and everything was full. Parked at a corner McD's, knowing the performance was only lasting an hour and maybe it would be ok.
Well it was not ok. They towed me probably 10 minutes before I got back to my car, arghhhhhh. I ubered to the tow place, got car quickly with no incident. I want to tell DH about it but I'm sure he will be pissed. WWML do??? Would you tell your SO, or just let it go?
The coverup is always worse than the event itself. Always. And it was an honest mistake. Not like you have a habit of getting towed often.
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I got my car towed this morning. I have not told anyone yet because I'm upset and feel kind of stupid about it. It was my fault but it still sucks ($180 later, ugh). I was helping as a chaperone for DS field trip downtown, I was running late because I had to do a ton of shit this morning for the kids (DH on shift), got downtown and tried to find parking and everything was full. Parked at a corner McD's, knowing the performance was only lasting an hour and maybe it would be ok.
Well it was not ok. They towed me probably 10 minutes before I got back to my car, arghhhhhh. I ubered to the tow place, got car quickly with no incident. I want to tell DH about it but I'm sure he will be pissed. WWML do??? Would you tell your SO, or just let it go?
Why will he be pissed? It was a mistake. I would tell my SO cause he wouldn’t care, but we often live in 2 different cities so life stuff like that often doesn’t get discussed.
You’ll probably feel better if you tell him and if he overreacts then that’s on him and not you. Mistakes happen!
I bought the boxes and packing materials for my move! Ahhhh! I checked the weather again and it looks like it’ll just be snow during my house hunting trip. Yay!!
Work is so crazy. I’m trying to teach my replacement how to do everything and I can tell it’s just information overload for her. By the end of things, she’ll have 6 weeks of training, but I feel like I’m not leaving her prepared. I’m getting nervous about leaving. I know that it’s impossible to ever “finish” training her, but I just hate leaving things a mess.