Also, as an add on to my earlier issue with swimming I just spoke with the coach. They are very much 'on it' and are going to ramp up the talks to the team about what is appropriate. Apparently this same kid was posting TikTok videos of kids on deck in their suits and has already had a talking to.
My kids are to absolutely stay away from him, but it really has shaken my confidence in the team and I'll be honest that I'm not sure if we will be back next year.
Something that has been so great for our family is being spoiled by this punk and I am still rip shit pissed.
calamity , It sounds like it's time for that kid to leave the team. I'm glad the coaches are on it and I hope it's not indicative of the overall culture of the team. It is 100% ok to kick a kid off an optional sports team for sexually harassing his teammates.
Also, as an add on to my earlier issue with swimming I just spoke with the coach. They are very much 'on it' and are going to ramp up the talks to the team about what is appropriate. Apparently this same kid was posting TikTok videos of kids on deck in their suits and has already had a talking to.
My kids are to absolutely stay away from him, but it really has shaken my confidence in the team and I'll be honest that I'm not sure if we will be back next year.
Something that has been so great for our family is being spoiled by this punk and I am still rip shit pissed.
That kid needs to be off the team. I have to believe there are more incidents that the coaches aren't aware of.
Post by litskispeciality on Jan 15, 2020 14:33:55 GMT -5
Good news, my dad is out of his biopsy and was given the clear to go home and eat. Fingers, toes, eyes crossed that they don't find any cancer.
Bad news, someone (my equal level position) got promoted internally. We found out today via email...yet she works inbetween the two equal level staff, and we're all here today. I"m just bitter, I just left a job because I wasn't promoting, and now I'm still not promoting. I have more education credentials, and this persons backfilled job will require more credentials than this person has. Ugh life isn't fair, but don't let higher level title/staff has lower credentials, it makes it really hard to put in the extra for a promotion. I was doing so good trying to be ok with where I am in my career. At least I have a job, but I won't be trying for that next level for a while because I don't want to look like a job jumper.
Also, as an add on to my earlier issue with swimming I just spoke with the coach. They are very much 'on it' and are going to ramp up the talks to the team about what is appropriate. Apparently this same kid was posting TikTok videos of kids on deck in their suits and has already had a talking to.
My kids are to absolutely stay away from him, but it really has shaken my confidence in the team and I'll be honest that I'm not sure if we will be back next year.
Something that has been so great for our family is being spoiled by this punk and I am still rip shit pissed.
That kid needs to be off the team. I have to believe there are more incidents that the coaches aren't aware of.
That's what i'm thinking too. So sorry that you have to deal with this and its shaking your confidence in having your DD on the team
Also, as an add on to my earlier issue with swimming I just spoke with the coach. They are very much 'on it' and are going to ramp up the talks to the team about what is appropriate. Apparently this same kid was posting TikTok videos of kids on deck in their suits and has already had a talking to.
My kids are to absolutely stay away from him, but it really has shaken my confidence in the team and I'll be honest that I'm not sure if we will be back next year.
Something that has been so great for our family is being spoiled by this punk and I am still rip shit pissed.
This kid absolutely needs to be removed from the team. Why should your family suffer and lose something that’s otherwise good for them when the person acting inappropriately gets to stay? And if he's already pulling this shit at 9 and it hasn’t been stopped he’s only going to get far worse.
My H has gotten off his duff and is now sitting in the other room playing a video game, so he's no longer bugging me about his back, and we got word that the results came back on the cat and they didn't get lymph tissue. They'll try again next week at her post-op appointment if they can palpate them, but my H thought to ask if they thought they got it all during surgery and they think they did, so if it hasn't spread to her lymph nodes she's probably OK for now.
calamity, that is such a horrible follow up. I really hope they kick that kid off the team. He's creating an unsafe environment for all the kids.
calamity , It sounds like it's time for that kid to leave the team. I'm glad the coaches are on it and I hope it's not indicative of the overall culture of the team. It is 100% ok to kick a kid off an optional sports team for sexually harassing his teammates.
Post by killercupcake on Jan 15, 2020 19:33:59 GMT -5
H got the day shift! He starts on the 27th. And the daycare we wanted has a spot opening next week so we have somewhere to take DS when H starts. I am so relieved all around.
Also, as an add on to my earlier issue with swimming I just spoke with the coach. They are very much 'on it' and are going to ramp up the talks to the team about what is appropriate. Apparently this same kid was posting TikTok videos of kids on deck in their suits and has already had a talking to.
My kids are to absolutely stay away from him, but it really has shaken my confidence in the team and I'll be honest that I'm not sure if we will be back next year.
Something that has been so great for our family is being spoiled by this punk and I am still rip shit pissed.
Holy shit, how was he not removed from the team after this incident. This is absolute bullshit; I would be livid. I am livid and it isn’t even my kid. This is one of those situations where I would need to send my more reasonable spouse in so that I didn’t throat punch a child, and dick punch a coach. This is rape culture, this is how it’s starts. This kid has been taught by the adults in charge that his actions are beyond reproach since there haven’t been any real consequences except a ‘talking to’ by let me guess, another man who doesn’t know shit about shit.