White cloth diapers ( awesome as burp clothes) Woombie swaddler Baby shusher Board book Sleep toy
All of this.
If you know she will be breastfeeding or pumping, the Lansinoh 3 in 1 hot/cold packs have been my go-to gift for years. Now along with a Haakaa.
I hated the swaddle me swaddles. It was very hard to customize the size for the baby and get a tight swaddle. I prefer the Woombie or Halo swaddlesacks.