Dicks?

[GilliC]

Sept 24, 2012 11:01:43 GMT -5 gozf said:

Sept 24, 2012 10:04:52 GMT -5 GilliC said:

Why is it so bad to talk about how it looks? I do not find my boyfriend's penis particularly attractive, and even with the LDR, I'm not really interested in spending long periods of time staring at it. Even if it was the most beautiful dick in the world, I still wouldn't. There are much more interesting things to do with a penis.

Or maybe I'm the minority in that I think all dicks look weird, and most women are all, "Can you hurry up and finish so that I have a better view of your cock?"

Not wanting to ogle it is different from picking apart flaws. Kind of like the difference between, "I'm not really a boob guy" and "that girl had inverted nipples -- gross!"

See? Different.

Yes, but what about the middle ground? "Wow! Her areolas are really pale! I think I prefer them on the darker side!"

Should we not mention our personal preferences for fear that someone might stumble onto the forum and get a complex? Or should we just fall back on the Knot cliché: "I went out with this guy who still lives his mother, and his room was full of old pizza boxes and cockroaches. What do you think?" "NMS, but it's your date!"

And just because someone finds something gross doesn't mean that it should be universally considered a flaw. There are plenty of people who think that long toenails or outy belly-buttons or unusual piercings or dreadlocks are gross.

[stephbfan]

Sept 24, 2012 11:49:57 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Sept 24, 2012 11:45:04 GMT -5 GilliC said:

Yes, but what about the middle ground? "Wow! Her areolas are really pale! I think I prefer them on the darker side!"

Should we not mention our personal preferences for fear that someone might stumble onto the forum and get a complex? Or should we just fall back on the Knot cliché: "I went out with this guy who still lives his mother, and his room was full of old pizza boxes and cockroaches. What do you think?" "NMS, but it's your date!"

And just because someone finds something gross doesn't mean that it should be universally considered a flaw. There are plenty of people who think that long toenails or outy belly-buttons or unusual piercings or dreadlocks are gross.

It's not about personal preferences. We all have them. It's about not being an asshole about physical attributes that people can't fix. Sure we all can be nit picky about certain things, but aside from hygiene and general manner about not having a forrest of pubes, it's a pretty dick thing to tear apart someone's genitals (yes, pun intended).

I talk bad about people sure, but about stuff that they can fix or bad personality traits. People can say whatever they want about me too, but I'd be devastated to hear a man commenting on my body the way that some people went into detail. Do I prefer men with larger calves and pretty penises, sure, but I'm not going to rip someone to shreds if they don't possess those physical attributes.

Should we go back to the post where most women on here said that they wouldn't date shorter guys?

Its a matter of preferences, there are things that I dislike and like in a penis but it doesn't mean I'm going not going to have sex with the guy just because of that, heck, I'm going to be happy to be getting any lol.

[GilliC]

Sept 24, 2012 11:49:57 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Do I prefer men with larger calves and pretty penises, sure, but I'm not going to rip someone to shreds if they don't possess those physical attributes.

Is it wrong to post on a forum discussing such preferences?

I would never, ever, ever, ever look at a guy's wang and say, "Ewww! Gross!" but I don't see anything terribly wrong with saying that I prefer them veiny and flesh-colored and that purplish penises are not my favorite. Everyone likes something different. What's so bad about talking about that?

[GilliC]

PS - I see it like boobs. Some guys like them big, and some like them small and perky. Some are into big nipples, and some like small ones. I know plenty of guys who are not really into my style of boobs. I'm not going to fault them for that. And like women and penises, most guys would probably take any boobs they could get their hands on, even if it's not their favorite kind!

[stephbfan]

Sept 24, 2012 11:58:25 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Sept 24, 2012 11:56:00 GMT -5 stephbfan said:

Should we go back to the post where most women on here said that they wouldn't date shorter guys?

Its a matter of preferences, there are things that I dislike and like in a penis but it doesn't mean I'm going not going to have sex with the guy just because of that, heck, I'm going to be happy to be getting any lol.

Haha, go for it! You won't find my name anywhere in that post!

Note: I'm uber-sensitive about genitalia comments, as I previously mentioned.

You know I'm not specifically talking about you MCC but it was jut generally speaking.

I guess everyone is sensitive about a certain type of comments. In my case is my weight.

[GilliC]

I don't think it's rude that you openly admit to preferring large calves.

[Deleted]

Sept 24, 2012 12:01:15 GMT -5 GilliC said:

Sept 24, 2012 11:49:57 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Do I prefer men with larger calves and pretty penises, sure, but I'm not going to rip someone to shreds if they don't possess those physical attributes.

Is it wrong to post on a forum discussing such preferences?

I would never, ever, ever, ever look at a guy's wang and say, "Ewww! Gross!" but I don't see anything terribly wrong with saying that I prefer them veiny and flesh-colored and that purplish penises are not my favorite. Everyone likes something different. What's so bad about talking about that?

I meant pretty much this.
It isn't like I'd look at potential partners dick and say, "whoops, haha, don't like your dick and therefore don't like you!" That is just ridiculous.
However, I am more than allowed to inwardly go, "Hmm. I don't like that particular shape of dick. However, I love his personality, and that means so much more to me."
With that being said, it is also okay to get grossed out when A) someone smooshes their bumpy, untaken care of dick on your window and B) you get a pubic hair in your mouth when you give a bj.

While I understand that genitals are a sensitive subject for some, much like hair color, freckles, weight, shoe size, and many, many other things, it is one thing to be grossed out by certain things and then be an asshat about it and tell the other person that you are. It is completely different to just keep it to yourself and make judgments based on other aspects of the person.

That is all I am saying.

In other news,
what about those dicks pics? Also... where did you even get them?

[BlueBayou]

Sept 24, 2012 11:22:00 GMT -5 @thepaingame said:

I guess to me it is just another part of the human body. Like hair color, freckles, whatever. I just figure there are ones I'm going to like, and ones I'm not. However, a not taken care of dick is unattractive. That is a part of you body you need to take care of and wash, and it speaks volumes to me if you don't.

I've also been teased about my particular complexion, so while I see where you are coming from, I have to politely disagree.

This. Totally agree. This is not a heinous bashing post. Its sad if it hit a nerve with some of you but its being made into more than what it really is. It was a preference/experience discussion.

[BlueBayou]

Sept 24, 2012 12:12:12 GMT -5 @thepaingame said:

Sept 24, 2012 12:01:15 GMT -5 GilliC said:

Is it wrong to post on a forum discussing such preferences?

I would never, ever, ever, ever look at a guy's wang and say, "Ewww! Gross!" but I don't see anything terribly wrong with saying that I prefer them veiny and flesh-colored and that purplish penises are not my favorite. Everyone likes something different. What's so bad about talking about that?

I meant pretty much this.
It isn't like I'd look at potential partners dick and say, "whoops, haha, don't like your dick and therefore don't like you!" That is just ridiculous.
However, I am more than allowed to inwardly go, "Hmm. I don't like that particular shape of dick. However, I love his personality, and that means so much more to me."
With that being said, it is also okay to get grossed out when A) someone smooshes their bumpy, untaken care of dick on your window and B) you get a pubic hair in your mouth when you give a bj.

While I understand that genitals are a sensitive subject for some, much like hair color, freckles, weight, shoe size, and many, many other things, it is one thing to be grossed out by certain things and then be an asshat about it and tell the other person that you are. It is completely different to just keep it to yourself and make judgments based on other aspects of the person.

That is all I am saying.

In other news,
what about those dicks pics? Also... where did you even get them?

Agreed and Ditto.

[BlueBayou]

Sept 24, 2012 11:22:41 GMT -5 @thepaingame said:

Sept 24, 2012 10:16:42 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

I have a photo album of dick pics if anyone is interested...

Not going to lie, I'm more interested in why you have a photo album of dicks. Are you a photographer of some sort?

Im intrigued as well to hear of this album BK!! And what made you start one?

[GilliC]

I will confess that my problem with the head that looks like it's about to pop is my own batshit-crazy issue. I had an irrational fear that I would injur the guy! Like maybe if I was too aggressive in my fellatio, I might rupture his delicate penile skin.

We all have our weird mental hang-ups!

[Deleted]

Sept 24, 2012 12:27:42 GMT -5 GilliC said:

I will confess that my problem with the head that looks like it's about to pop is my own batshit-crazy issue. I had an irrational fear that I would injur the guy! Like maybe if I was too aggressive in my fellatio, I might rupture his delicate penile skin.

We all have our weird mental hang-ups!

Its cool. My first ex had this penis with one giant vein in it, and I was totally scared if I was too rough it might burst and make him bleed out.

[lookingup]

I have stayed out of this thread because I knew it was going to go like this. There is a big difference in a guy saying, "I prefer big breasts," and saying, "Chicks with small boobs look like little boys." You can be pro- something without being anti- something else.

Just like the thread about dating tall guys instead of short guys. In that one I pointed out that if men made a thread about skinny women vs. fat women, we would all be horrified.

[blackkitty]

Fuck all y'all because now I just want to have the sex

[lookingup]

Sept 24, 2012 14:24:25 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Fuck all y'all because now I just want to have the sex

I've been super horny for like the past two weeks. It's really exhausting, especially when I've been sexting a guy with a beautiful penis for days now.

[blackkitty]

Sept 24, 2012 14:33:55 GMT -5 lookingup said:

Sept 24, 2012 14:24:25 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Fuck all y'all because now I just want to have the sex

I've been super horny for like the past two weeks. It's really exhausting, especially when I've been sexting a guy with a beautiful penis for days now.

I haven't had sex in like 6 weeks
Possibly a record for me

[lookingup]

Sept 24, 2012 14:37:29 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Sept 24, 2012 14:33:55 GMT -5 lookingup said:

I've been super horny for like the past two weeks. It's really exhausting, especially when I've been sexting a guy with a beautiful penis for days now.

I haven't had sex in like 6 weeks
Possibly a record for me

I haven't had good, satisfying sex in a couple months. I'm going to be really sad if dude and I don't hook up this week.

[blackkitty]

Sept 24, 2012 14:39:44 GMT -5 lookingup said:

Sept 24, 2012 14:37:29 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

I haven't had sex in like 6 weeks
Possibly a record for me

I haven't had good, satisfying sex in a couple months. I'm going to be really sad if dude and I don't hook up this week.

I had phone sex this weekend
Not the same