Post by sofamonkey on Aug 19, 2021 19:44:45 GMT -5
Knowing the owner is likely in charge of their social media page, or at least has control, you don’t think that will get deleted ASAP? And then retribution, just as the OP is fearing?
To be practical, I think the SM moms group that’s already been started, as well as local media are good ways to inform & remain somewhat anonymous.
Post by goldengirlz on Aug 19, 2021 19:45:19 GMT -5
I finally read the article the OP posted and it’s fucking infuriating. It’s the picture of rape culture.
“Oh, no, this guy couldn’t have done anything like that; he’s such a pillar of the community,” blah blah fucking blah. Of course he was released without having to post any bail.
And now he’s out there luring literal children to his house. Utterly disgusting.
Knowing the owner is likely in charge of their social media page, or at least has control, you don’t think that will get deleted ASAP? And then retribution, just as the OP is fearing?
To be practical, I think the SM moms group that’s already been started, as well as local media are good ways to inform & remain somewhat anonymous.
As OP just said, rinks are (really, really, really) expensive to run and generally are owned and operated by larger corporations. It's possible that the news story overstated his position, though maybe not. I understand her hesitation, but at the very least I would call the rink and see if there is someone in upper management that she can get a hold of. Even if he is the actual owner of the facility and not just the program, he doesn't run everything all by himself.
Knowing the owner is likely in charge of their social media page, or at least has control, you don’t think that will get deleted ASAP? And then retribution, just as the OP is fearing?
To be practical, I think the SM moms group that’s already been started, as well as local media are good ways to inform & remain somewhat anonymous.
As OP just said, rinks are (really, really, really) expensive to run and generally are owned and operated by larger corporations. It's possible that the news story overstated his position, though maybe not. I understand her hesitation, but at the very least I would call the rink and see if there is someone in upper management that she can get a hold of. Even if he is the actual owner of the facility and not just the program, he doesn't run everything all by himself.
Well, thank you for volunteering to help her! I expect you and OP to exchange info so you can do it the right way! You’re very kind!
This is so fucked up! I'm sorry L can do what she was excited to do... but WOW is all I can say. Good job with your mama instincts. I am so glad you asked, and that Mom reached out to you.
Post by imojoebunny on Aug 19, 2021 20:17:33 GMT -5
That is some fucking shit. "He was freed without having to post bail." “I’ve known him for many years. He has done so much for the community,” “He’s just a really great guy.” This is the MO of so many adult male rapist of young women I have known over the years, it would be comical, if it wasn't true. No chance this guy is getting convicted, but, also, no chance I would let my kid anywhere near him. A similar thing happened with the HOA where our vacation house is. The "respected" adult staff person, raped one of the teenage female employees. Fortunately or very unfortunately, he had done the same with other teens, and he is now in jail. I suspect this was not this assfuckers first rodeo, so hopefully, others will come forward.
OP- in addition to your two news contacts I would also consider emailing (or anonymously tweeting if you are more comfortable) the writer of the article you posted. Since he already published a piece on the owner he may be more invested in a follow up piece.
You would think he would be nervous about having people in his home following a rape allegation but nope!
Did you look at that smug asshole? That is not the face of a guy who worries he’ll get convicted of anything. And sadly, statistically, that’s probably true. He’s what happens when the Brock Turners of the world are allowed to waltz through life.
If there is an easy website or number to call for the state division on childcare, telling them the contents of the email or forwarding that email to them would maybe get camp shut down next week.
Post by sporklemotion on Aug 20, 2021 8:43:05 GMT -5
I’m in Metrowest MA and can offer some leads for programs if you need. My girls did a half-day art camp that offers extended day and may still have openings. It’s definitely not the most active or exciting option, but my kids liked it and it would keep your kid safe. It’s at a local ceramics studio and they did some outdoor stuff in their parking lot to get the kids moving, and they played games, but it is more sedentary.
My kids also had a gymnastics camp that may have some openings if you need— it filled up pretty thoroughly, but they may have a half day with extended day or a random day here or there you could snag.
Neither is super close to you, but they would be better than nothing.
Want me to post on their social media? I don’t live anywhere near you.
You’ll have to keep us in the loop on what comes of this.
This may not be a bad idea! He has his FB own page for the hockey school but the rink page is separate. Waiting to hear from her gymnastics camp about next week but if they aren’t available H is just going to WFH and maybe have his mom come for a day or two. And I am already off on Monday. Also need to work on getting a refund from this place, all while running around like crazy this trying to get ready for head north for a wedding.
Want me to post on their social media? I don’t live anywhere near you.
You’ll have to keep us in the loop on what comes of this.
This may not be a bad idea! He has his FB own page for the hockey school but the rink page is separate. Waiting to hear from her gymnastics camp about next week but if they aren’t available H is just going to WFH and maybe have his mom come for a day or two. And I am already off on Monday. Also need to work on getting a refund from this place, all while running around like crazy this trying to get ready for head north for a wedding.
This is local to me and my son has skated at the rink on and off for years. The entire thing is sickening. I would also reach out to USA/Mass Hockey regarding the camp to see if there are any Safe Sport violations as well.
Want me to post on their social media? I don’t live anywhere near you.
You’ll have to keep us in the loop on what comes of this.
This may not be a bad idea! He has his FB own page for the hockey school but the rink page is separate. Waiting to hear from her gymnastics camp about next week but if they aren’t available H is just going to WFH and maybe have his mom come for a day or two. And I am already off on Monday. Also need to work on getting a refund from this place, all while running around like crazy this trying to get ready for head north for a wedding.
Serious offer. If you want to chat through it, PM me.
This may not be a bad idea! He has his FB own page for the hockey school but the rink page is separate. Waiting to hear from her gymnastics camp about next week but if they aren’t available H is just going to WFH and maybe have his mom come for a day or two. And I am already off on Monday. Also need to work on getting a refund from this place, all while running around like crazy this trying to get ready for head north for a wedding.
This is local to me and my son has skated at the rink on and off for years. The entire thing is sickening. I would also reach out to USA/Mass Hockey regarding the camp to see if there are any Safe Sport violations as well.
Oh, great idea! OP, I’d forgotten about this, but USA hockey would be a good place to report. All kids have to register with them before playing. It doesn’t have to be right now, because I know you have immediate issues, but this is a good place to identify this asshole.
omg this story. Thank God you found this out. I would try to find a way to alert as many people as possible who might have kids enrolled in this camp, since it's starting so soon. And emailing the person who wrote the article about his charges is a good idea too. Maybe also get back in touch with the mom who PMed you and see if she has any ideas about how to spread this news quickly?
ETA I'm sure he will delete anything posted to his FB page, but maybe it'll be up long enough for someone to see it. Or better yet, you could create a burner FB account and post it on that page and tag them. That way anyone searching for the rink's page would have a chance of seeing it.
This may not be a bad idea! He has his FB own page for the hockey school but the rink page is separate. Waiting to hear from her gymnastics camp about next week but if they aren’t available H is just going to WFH and maybe have his mom come for a day or two. And I am already off on Monday. Also need to work on getting a refund from this place, all while running around like crazy this trying to get ready for head north for a wedding.
This is local to me and my son has skated at the rink on and off for years. The entire thing is sickening. I would also reach out to USA/Mass Hockey regarding the camp to see if there are any Safe Sport violations as well.
starburst604, I was going to offer to tweet/share for you; but do you think I would be at risk being in MA? I'm not near you though! Give it a thought and let me know.
This may not be a bad idea! He has his FB own page for the hockey school but the rink page is separate. Waiting to hear from her gymnastics camp about next week but if they aren’t available H is just going to WFH and maybe have his mom come for a day or two. And I am already off on Monday. Also need to work on getting a refund from this place, all while running around like crazy this trying to get ready for head north for a wedding.
Serious offer. If you want to chat through it, PM me.
Same. I have no problem burning things down from CO
If I made a public post on my facebook page with the link of the article and tagging the ice rink and hockey league - no once could delete it correct? Maybe eventually block me perhaps? I'm willing if you would like. I am in MD so far away from Hockey country EXCEPT The Capitals practice rink and farm team are less than 2 miles from me - so a lot of interested hockey fans down here.
I was late to this and tried to find the article. I could gather it was in MA (where I live) and searched MA hockey coach arrested and I am very discouraged by how MANY different articles came up about various other coaches. People can be so sick
I was late to this and tried to find the article. I could gather it was in MA (where I live) and searched MA hockey coach arrested and I am very discouraged by how MANY different articles came up about various other coaches. People can be so sick
The article is linked in this post several times. But yes awful.