I'll be divorced. I just got the news that we are all set for tomorrow morning. There was a potential problem but it looks like it won't be an issue. I am so conflicted. In many ways I am beyond ready. The fact that he is being such an ass makes it a lot easier and since I am already living alone and doing my own thing, it won't change that much. On the other hand, I feel like tomorrow is the end of all of my hopes and dreams. I am losing security, a sense of who I am, and where I thought I would be.
Fingers crossed it goes well, that he isn't super mean or tries to make any last minute changes, and that I can maintain my composure.
{{{hugs}}} This has got to be such a bittersweet time for you. But you are a strong, beautiful woman and you will come out of this with even more strength and wisdom.
You've had so much to take in and adjust to in such a short time! I hope tomorrow goes smoothly and that the next chapter in your life is much kinder to you. You deserve it!
Good luck! If he's an a$$ tomorrow or you're getting ready to break down, think of a bunch of GBCNies breaking his skull for being such a prick to you. He doesn't know what he's missing...