I changed my name. It's wedding18. I got married on the 18th of the month which is where I got the wedding18 from but screw that. I've been wanting to change for a while.
Post by blondnearby on May 13, 2012 22:44:14 GMT -5
Same SN. I was more of a lurker than a poster but I have noticed that I am finding more in common with this board lately than the SP board on TB. Hopefully, I will be more active here.
I was a lurker from the other board, same name (mainly on blended families on thebump). Been divorced since 2009 now remarried and expecting, but I can relate to a lot that I read here from my time dating. Figured this is a good time to introduce myself! Hi everyone!
Post by geekygirl83 on May 18, 2012 19:37:41 GMT -5
I introduced myself once and told my story (Husband left me for best friend) and then posted a few times but was afraid to post anything important in case Ex or Ex-friend were lurking (It was a name I used a lot on different sites)
I am completely new. I am Christina, I am 32 and live in NJ with my dog, Cody and cat, Clyde. My Ex and I split last June and hopefully the divorce will be finalized any day. I am still adjusting to all of this and somedays are definitely easier than others. Today will be a rough one... my best friend is getting married this weekend and I am a bridesmaid and this is my first post-separation wedding. We will see how it goes...
I feel like I'm posting ridiculous amounts, so I should probably introduce myself. Short story:
My exhusband of a year died in an auto accident shortly after our first anniversary. Before we were married, we had been engaged for about three years, and before that we knew each other since childhood. Since then, I've gotten to know a wonderful man who is now my boyfriend. Are some days still hard? Yes. I don't think adjusting to such a sad, abrupt death is something that comes easily...
Random factoid: I had my wedding ring resized to fit my pointer finger. It is a simple, very plain band, and well, it isn't so much to remember my exhusband, but to remember all the good times we had throughout all of the years we knew each other and to remember one of the best friends I have ever had.
Other random factoid: My current boyfriend is very okay with the ring.
PainGame, I'm sorry for your loss. It sounds like you had a wonderfully short blessing in your life. Thank you for sharing that here and I,m wishing you all the hugs and strength to heal.
PainGame, I'm sorry for your loss. It sounds like you had a wonderfully short blessing in your life. Thank you for sharing that here and I,m wishing you all the hugs and strength to heal.
Post by glitzyglow on May 24, 2012 18:47:15 GMT -5
My name is GlitzyGlow.
I was married for 5 years. My husband had some sort of life crisis/mental breakdown and began using drugs and apparently fucking any willing woman. He blew off his job and ran up about $13k of debt in 3 months.
I didn't immediately file for a divorce because I feared he might need committed and I didn't think his parents would do it if it came down to that.
Finally divorced in early 2012 after a long-drawn out process with a husband who finally realized the magnitude of what he did and that the marriage was dead. The begging and pleading was heart-wrenching, but not as painful as your husband cheating on you.
I've dated here and there, but I've had that spark with no one thus far, lol.
Hi, I'm Nessia. Sometime lurker but hopefully posting more over here. Together with ex for over 8 years. Never legally married but had two kids, house and cars together. He cheated and probably emotionally abusive. He moved out in Feb 2011 and immediately started a relationship he is still in. I'm still waiting on Karma to come kick his ass but she's being a bitch. I've just recently started thinking about dating again. Just kinda hard with two kids.
Post by purplinsky on Jun 17, 2012 13:56:53 GMT -5
I haven't posted on proboards yet, but I'm a sometimes poster on TB SP and Blended Families (although I'm just a SP) board. My SN on TB was kmartinez80.
I've been divorced for a little over a year now and I haven't started over yet (between being an SP and a time consuming job I just haven't had the time), but I'm ready to do so and I'm hoping I'll be a more frequent poster here.
I was JustTheWayYouAre on the nest. I posted last week that I am finally ready to file for divorce. My stbx doesn't know yet that I am ready to leave. Also my nestname was the name of our first dance song so I figured new chapter new name.
Post by crystalangel79 on Jun 26, 2012 13:47:58 GMT -5
I lurked and posted once or twice. I'm Crystal. My S/N is the same as my nestie name and I'm very much a regular on the July 09 board. Even though I'm now divorced, that group of ladies have been tremendous friends to me.
The ex hubs walked out after a year of marriage (almost two years ago now). I've been fully divorced one year... have since met an amazing guy and am enjoying a new relationship. I have no kids.
I was an infrequent poster on the nest, but my screen name there was happy555. 555 referred to the date I moved in with exH, hence the name change. Tallie is my female dogs name, and she is very strong and independent, so I named myself after her since that is what I want to be!
I was a lurker, felt weird posting anywhere after my divorce. So, I'll introduce myself. Divorced in 2009 (married in '06), live in Northern CA with boyfriend of 1 year and his 3-year old daughter. No kids of my own, but one awesome mutt dog.
I posted very infrequently on TN (mostly on SO and F&B). My screen name was EatEdamame. I just posted an introduction on the board and plan to post more from now on.