I was briefly, but when the decision was made to divorce, our house was partially renovated, so we had to rush to finish that so we could sell it, and I was trying to get packed and moved and find a new job and work out the legal details, etc., so I haven't been to a counselor in a while. I know I need to, but I'm also trying to settle in, go on job interviews, etc., get unpacked, take care of the kids, etc., so I feel like I can't really take a lot of time for counseling right now.
It's an hour once a week, YOU can do this.
Rikki-iPhone
Agreed....you DESERVE to give yourself an hour a week to help you get through this roller coaster ride!
How long have you been single? I was separated/divorced from my ExH and casually dating for 5.5 years and am now in a relationship
Or if you are in a new relationship, how long have you been together? 6 1/2 months
Are you doing online dating (what sites)? Not currently, but I did them all. OKC, POF, Match, Eharmony. Met BF on POF.
Are you seeing anyone or FWB? See previous Anything else you wanna add? Yes! I spent so many years single, and didn't even date at all for the first year after my separation/divorce. If you are single, enjoy it. Cultivate your life and make yourself the best verson of yourself. Only date if it is fun and always keep the faith alive that you'll meet someone, even if you don't know when at this point.
I know we're all at different stages of starting over and I'm curious.
How long have you been single? Divorced in 2008. Single for most of that time, with lots of first dates, FWB, and 2 other short relationships (2 months, and 4 months) that never really got off the ground
Or if you are in a new relationship, how long have you been together? I've been with my boyfriend officially since August, although we've actually been dating since February; I just kept telling him we were only friends.
Are you doing online dating (what sites)? I tried both eHarmony and Match, but never had much luck with either. In the end, BF and I were introduced by a mutual friend.
How long have you been single? I left xh 13 months ago. After a mandatory year long separation, I filed for divorce last month.
Or if you are in a new relationship, how long have you been together? I've been with my bf for about 3 months. We went to high school together and reconnected. It's pretty serious.
Are you doing online dating (what sites)? I did- match, POF, okcupid.
Post by formerlyak on Dec 10, 2012 12:35:24 GMT -5
How long have you been single? Ex asked for a divorce on Oct. 23, 2009. We have a six month waiting period for divorce here in CA, so our divorce was final and legal in June 2010.
If you are in a new relationship, how long have you been together? Fi and I have been together since October 2010. We got engaged this past June.
Are you doing online dating? I met fi on eharmony.