H says clean shaven or trimmed "landing strip" are hot. Bushy pubes= not hot. I go with clean shaven. I don't ind it hard to keep up with, I shave it every other day in the shower along with my legs and everything else
See, I agree with this. I know this is flammable as it's been discussed MANY times but *I* am not comfortable with it. I did it once, looked in the mirror and was all "um, no..." Probably how many of you would feel if you had pubes. To each her own, I feel weird with no hair and H actually likes it better my way so it works.
I agree with this. I don't like looking like a baby.
Ugh. I hate this argument so fucking much.
If pubic hair is the only thing keeping you from looking like a baby, you have some sort of hormonal/developmental problems. Have a bush or not. I don't care about your nethers. But pubic hair isn't the only thing that separates the girls from the women.
H says clean shaven or trimmed "landing strip" are hot. Bushy pubes= not hot. I go with clean shaven. I don't ind it hard to keep up with, I shave it every other day in the shower along with my legs and everything else
H likes a landing strip because it has to do with airplanes. He's an odd one...
Okay okay... I can see how my OP was misleading because I mentioned how I almost grew it out after J out of laziness. But it didn't make it to the long and lush stage. I don't want it to get there. lol.I am talking about keeping a trimmed triangle over the public area and still shaving the bikini and underneath. I think it's hot.
Yes, this is what most of us with bushes are talking about but people see 70's bush that's not kept up or some shit.
Okay okay... I can see how my OP was misleading because I mentioned how I almost grew it out after J out of laziness. But it didn't make it to the long and lush stage. I don't want it to get there. lol.I am talking about keeping a trimmed triangle over the public area and still shaving the bikini and underneath. I think it's hot.
how is that less work/effort than shaving it all? You still have to maintain the under carriage.
Okay okay... I can see how my OP was misleading because I mentioned how I almost grew it out after J out of laziness. But it didn't make it to the long and lush stage. I don't want it to get there. lol.I am talking about keeping a trimmed triangle over the public area and still shaving the bikini and underneath. I think it's hot.
This is what I have done since I had DS.
DH loves it. I keep everything under nice and neat, and I've never had a problem having an orgasm or having DH not want to go down on me.
I think the term bush is what is throwing most of you. Lol.
Man, I don't blame you. It'd be a whole different ball game if I was dating. I do feel like it's a different world out there. Among my friends even, they think I'm weird for not going totally bald. Like, they look at me like I have a third eye, lol. And H trims, too but he's like me. He doesn't shave junk, has actual HAIR on his chest (omg) and I think it's sexy. I'm old school, I guess.
I don't want to go bare I'm just hoping that whoever I end up dating is happy enough to be in that area that they don't care lol I haven't had a problem so far, but that is a lot of pressure dammit!
Gozer, I'm not saying that any woman who shaves looks like a baby, or that pubic hair is the only characteristic of womanhood/puberty, lol.
There are many things - apart from the state of my pubic hair - that make it apparent I am a woman and not a child. I personally don't like being hairless and one of several reasons is that it makes me feel child-like in appearance in that area.
I'm not arguing that nobody should shave their pubes because they all look like babies.