Post by lauranicole91 on Jan 5, 2013 18:02:04 GMT -5
So I guess he was literally reading off the posts to her. When Wes called will to tell him to back the fuck off his brother didn't even have the balls to talk. He just passed the phone to their mom.
She was telling Wes how dangerous it is to leave a baby in a running car due to carbon monoxide. And how that's not how he was raised. And that letting a baby sleep in the car vs waking them up and dealing with a cranky baby is lazy parenting.
Every time Wes tried to get a word in edge wise she cut him off. When she finished her one sided conversation she just hung up. Since Wes was at work and his break was up, it was left as that.
We have come to the agreement that they are not to see Peyton until further notice. We want real, sincere apologies before we will even consider being in the same room as them.
Alone, this ordeal isn't a huge deal, not necessarily shun worthy, but mixed with past occurrences we just sick of it.
I'm glad he called her but WTF with her not even letting him talk. That is not lazy parenting and being in a running car (outside- not in a garage) is not going to give you carbon monoxide. UGH I'm so angry for you but I completely understand you wanting a real apology.
I don't even know where to start with that. How is that lazy? My head might just explode!
Seriously this whole situation still just baffles my mind. I mean I always knew BIL and MIL were crazy, as they've proved again and again, but this is even more stupid than normal.
Another gem from BIL is that he told my oldest SIL that she killed their grandfather. She had custody of them when he passed for various medical reasons that were unpreventable in a nursing home. Before SIL took custody my MIL had custody, left the very delusional elderly couple home alone. Grandpa tried to leave the house and go "home" and fell down six brick steps and broke a hip and several hips. Yeah because clearly before SIL had custody they were in great care....
My inlaws are crazy you guys. I've just been too lazy to rant about them here before.
I'm glad he called her but WTF with her not even letting him talk. That is not lazy parenting and being in a running car (outside- not in a garage) is not going to give you carbon monoxide. UGH I'm so angry for you but I completely understand you wanting a real apology.
Omg here's the kicker. MIL is a nurse guys. A nurse. Who apparently goes around telling people you can get carbon monoxide poisoning from a running car in an open outdoor parking lot. Genius.
They left your baby in a running car? WTF. No big talk should have been needed. They should have not done it in the first place and, since they did, said, "OH SHIT!" and apologized right away.
If I'm reading this right, you read my posts wrong. BIL chewed me out for sitting in a running car with Pey while she slept. MIL and BIL apparently think you are supposed to wake them up and deal with a overtired baby. Therefore I am lazy and poisoning my child. Duh.
They left your baby in a running car? WTF. No big talk should have been needed. They should have not done it in the first place and, since they did, said, "OH SHIT!" and apologized right away.
If I'm reading this right, you read my posts wrong. BIL chewed me out for sitting in a running car with Pey while she slept. MIL and BIL apparently think you are supposed to wake them up and deal with a overtired baby. Therefore I am lazy and poisoning my child. Duh.
I did misread, that's why I deleted. I thought they had been watching him and left him in the car. I thought it was a garage, for some reason.
I leave Babysaurus in the car while I unload the groceries all the time. I wait to wake her until I can bring her into the house. She has somehow survived.
If I'm reading this right, you read my posts wrong. BIL chewed me out for sitting in a running car with Pey while she slept. MIL and BIL apparently think you are supposed to wake them up and deal with a overtired baby. Therefore I am lazy and poisoning my child. Duh.
I did misread, that's why I deleted. I thought they had been watching him and left him in the car. I thought it was a garage, for some reason.
I leave Babysaurus in the car while I unload the groceries all the time. I wait to wake her until I can bring her into the house. She has somehow survived.
Wow you are such a lazy incompetent parent mamasaurus!! <3
Awwwwww!!! I just read it all!! When he said that he'll pray for you, it made me want to punch him in the face. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I HATE when someone acts like they are better than you like that. Follow your mommy gut and don't let their negativity get you down!!
Post by lauranicole91 on Jan 5, 2013 19:32:09 GMT -5
Thanks for all the support guys. I've unfortunately been dealing with their nonsense for about 6 years now. I'm so over it.
I really hope this time DH will stand his ground with me. Usually he caves and says fighting isn't worth the energy. But hopefully since this time involved Peyton he will not just let this go.
Post by thedahliharpa on Jan 5, 2013 20:31:27 GMT -5
They don't understand that sitting in a running car outdoors is the same mothering effing thing as driving outdoors in terms of toxic fumes. Oh lord...
They don't understand that sitting in a running car outdoors is the same mothering effing thing as driving outdoors in terms of toxic fumes. Oh lord...
Exactly. So stupid. Makes me question her medical degree hardcore.
Post by The Foozzler on Jan 5, 2013 20:54:09 GMT -5
Ok, I just read the entire exchange and I have to say that I love all of you ladies. I especially like when you told Laura's BIL to pray for you because you are also putting your kids in danger.
Ugh.....sorry you have to deal with that BS, Laura. That makes me so mad for you, how dumb is their logic huh? Everyone kicked ass on that thread though :Y: