Guys, she took everything from his bank account.

[eav2c]

He's -$400 in his account. She's been using it since he was in the hospital. He has nothing now. Not a penny to his name. I called my dad and he said "Well, it's my fault, I told her she could use it sometimes." WTF. The worst thing is: He's vouching for her. He hasn't even bought a gift for C... not even a card acknowledging him because he has nothing. I'm so angry and hurt. I hate being mad at him but I AM.

She went to Old Navy, Withdrew some cash on multiple occasions, hired a UHAUL, wawa, and so on... I am just shocked. He was -$100 last month but I haven't actually looked at the charges because I might get sick. I feel like I might physically get ill.

I called back PA Protective Services and reported it. I am waiting for a call back from a police officer now too. My dad apparently told her she had to move out but I think that's because he's onto us.

I am thinking about flying up there tomorrow. Guys, if I see her, I might really hurt her. AND, she has BLOCKED my number.

[mala]

WTH. I'm sorry. I'm angry on your behalf.

[christidee]

I'm so sorry. I hope you get a handle on this soon, but I can only imagine that all of the red tape is ridiculous. Hugs.

[rubber pants]

I'd honestly try to call the cops. Not sure how far you will get but this is totally unacceptable.

[mikehoncho]

UM WTF? That bitch has some balls, huh? I'm so sorry

[Deleted]

I wish I could fly there with you. To hold you back... maybe. You would have to hold ME back!

[kandrze1]

Jan 15, 2013 19:13:27 GMT -5 rubber pants said:

I'd honestly try to call the cops. Not sure how far you will get but this is totally unacceptable.

This. I'm not sure how it would be handled being that your dad is still vouching for her, but that is absolutely ridiculous. I wouldn't blame you if you slapped a bitch a few times. I'm sorry your dealing with such a frustrating situation.

[muppetinma]

If you get arrested for kicking her ass, April 2012 will pay your bail.

[Regina Philange]

What the fuck???!!!!

I want to come help kick her ass.

[spaghetticat]

Oh, Eav, I'm so sorry. There are some fucked up people in the world.

[carawestt]

I am so sorry and angry for you. Situations like this bring out people's true sides, it's sad. When my dad was dying, his family was so awful to each other and to my brother and I. The relationships that were wrecked will never be mended.

[Deleted]

This sucks eav. I really hope the beeotch gets what she deserves.

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[Faevantastic]

Sorry that you're dealing with this.

[ruby412]

How old is your dad? Is this considered senior abuse? I definitely think you should get the cops involved. What a terrible, terrible bitch.

[bean47]

I'm so sorry this keeps getting worse for you.

[jenbelle]

Where is this twatwaffle? I'm coming to help kick her ass!!!!!

[Deleted]

There is another count of cruelty to the infirmed and adding in bank fraud!!!!

[cat19]

Holy fuck. I'm so sorry. Go guck that bitch's world up now.

[mamasaurus]

I hope the law comes down hard on her stupid ass.

[dojo]

That is unimaginable! What a despicable piece of garbage!

[charlielove]

Oh no. Do you have POA at this point? Has a restraining order been mentioned? Something you could ask his SW.

[pinkpeony6210]

I'd want to hurt her too!

[erniebufflo]

Wow! So sorry you're dealing with this.

[imimahoney]

OMG, how horrible. She is a terrible person.

[bebeetmoi]

Oh man, you just can't catch a break. I'm so sorry

[Deleted]

I'm sorry you are dealing with all this...She is a twat

[eav2c]

So here's an update:
The police won't do anything because we don't have POA and they can't determine for sure that he didn't tell her she can do it. We have to get him ruled incompetent or get POA to move forward with having that investigated. :-( The police officer was nice but basically said I am SOL for the time being.

My brother and I are seeing if we have any money to scrape together to get a lawyer and try to get an emergency hearing. He will need to have a physc eval first. I am hoping PA Protective Services will do this. I am going to hound them tomorrow. If they deem him incompetent, they might actually have an emergency hearing and take over his rights. I have talked basics to a lawyer in TN but nothing too specifically since he wants $$. My brother will have to help me pay for a retainer and we need a lawyer IN Pa.

Good thing is my brother has stepped up quite a bit. ALSO, they changed the locks to my dad's apartment so bitch wont be getting in there for the time being.

It just sucks because I feel helpless. The bank won't talk to me, the police can't do anything... so now it's us vs. my dad and we also have to rely on protective services to do their thing. My dad isn't really talking to either of us right now because we let him know how angry we are. He really believes this woman is God's gift to humanity. It is sickening. He also believes her lie that her child was kidnapped rather than CPS taking him away because of abuse and neglect. +o(

Ah. My dad is 80 for those who asked. This woman is about 28.

[tuck]

Wow. That bitch has some nerve.

I'm glad your brother is helping, though.

[kdrake8]

Pick me up on your way. I'll help you kick her ass.

[Deleted]

Oh eav, you are being such a tiger daughter right now. I am impressed. I am so so sorry. Does the county he is in have any elder services? I'm glad your brother is stepping up.