I hate people who assume. All my weight settled in by midsection, so I could easily be mistaken for pregnant. No one has said anything, but I think I'd just say the first two left all their crap in there.
Post by creamsiclechica on Jan 15, 2013 23:47:23 GMT -5
Fucking asshole. You should have asked when he was expecting, and then said you could tell he was going to have a baby ass, juding by the way he just assumed. Ugh!
I got asked twice in the same week a year before I got pregnant with Elias, when I was way thinner. The second time was at Ross when I was going into the fitting room. The attendant goes, "Oh, you pregnant?" she had an accent, not sure where from. "No.." I said. She continued, while nodding and pointing at my stomach "Yes, you pregnant..." My response, "No, it just looks like that..."
Now I'm worried since I already look 6 months pregnant but I'm not even two, what kind of comments I'm going to start getting.
I have no clue why people insist on making stupid ass comments. People don't think before they open their trap. I'm sorry that happened to you. You should have said " No, but I have a 8 month old and what's your excuse?".
Post by thedahliharpa on Jan 16, 2013 1:23:18 GMT -5
Yuck! When it happened to me if it was a dude too and it was creepy. The weight doesn't matter for me. It is the face that the elasticity in my stomach skin is GONE.
Post by lauranicole91 on Jan 16, 2013 1:46:02 GMT -5
I'm sorry they said that. It's so dumb how people can't just bite their tongue with comments like that!!
Even when a mom is clearly 8+ months pregnant I don't even bring it up. Even when they come through my line buying baby stuff I still ask "do you need gift receipts?" I'd rather get their snotty "no they are for me!" responses than accidentally call someone pregnant when they are in fact not at all.
What a fucking jerk. I'm sorry. I bet you look great. I've been asked before too and I just gave up on people. Seriously who the fuck asks says this shit? They need to get dropped off on a deserted island.
When will people learn that you never ask a woman if she is pregnant! Not unless her water breaks on your shoes and even then I might not ask! I'm sorry that guy was an asshole
Fucking asshole. You should have asked when he was expecting, and then said you could tell he was going to have a baby ass, juding by the way he just assumed. Ugh!