Post by gretchenindisguise on Jan 31, 2013 0:32:18 GMT -5
Oh Mekiakoo- my heart literally dropped. I am so so so sorry that your family is suffering like this. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
They will clean him up. A lot of how he looks will depend on how long he was there. Most of it is hidden when the body is prepared for showing, but since they are cremating him, I don't know how much they will do. If you want me to delete this, let me know. I'm not trying to upset you, but so you're prepared, he may have an elongated neck with or without ligature marks. He may also have a much darker face/head than the rest of his body. Again, lots of hugs and thoughts for you guys!
Post by midnightmare81 on Jan 31, 2013 2:24:54 GMT -5
I am so sorry (hug) (hug2). Don't forget to take care of yourself. Even if its just a half an hour to eat a bowl (or tub) of ice cream and getting your emotions out in your own time. Try not to let yourself think of how it happened to much. At first it will seem difficult, but they do subside over time.