This having sex every other day thing has been working for us. While you would think knowing you are going to have sex that day would ruin the fun, it is actually nice knowing and looking forward to it. Who knew!?
This having sex every other day thing has been working for us. While you would think knowing you are going to have sex that day would ruin the fun, it is actually nice knowing and looking forward to it. Who knew!?
I am getting tempted to try this. We are in such a rut right now.
This having sex every other day thing has been working for us. While you would think knowing you are going to have sex that day would ruin the fun, it is actually nice knowing and looking forward to it. Who knew!?
I am getting tempted to try this. We are in such a rut right now.
It was my thing for Lent this year. If we did not do this, I can easily let wayyyyyy too much pass. i think it is helping my libido.
We've done so much yard work over the last few days and it still looks like shit. Seriously, it looks like we haven't done a thing. I don't get it.
I think my kid is trying to give up naps and fuuuuck that noise. Every day she has been fighting me until about 4:30 pm, then she finally goes down. It's exhausting. I'm frustrated. This kid and her sleep issues, man.
Post by peachykate on Mar 28, 2013 19:14:21 GMT -5
I was so looking forward to going out tonight but the traffic was so bad due to an accident that I turned around after 40 minutes. It was on the highway so unfortunately there was no other way to go.
It was a book club meet up and the next one isn't for another month. It's pretty much the only time I get out alone. Womp womp
My H thinks I'm crazy because I want to help bees.
We have carpenter bees that have been nesting in the eves of our deck for a few years. Carpenter bees don't sting (well, the females CAN, but you would have to handle them) and they're really good pollinators, so I don't want to kill them. But I also want them to stop putting holes in my deck. I read about putting a log/dead wood near where they're trying to nest to redirect them away from the deck.
So yesterday I noticed that our neighbors had just cut down a tree and had logs sitting on the curb. We picked one up. I'm going to strip the bark and pre-drill some holes for the bees. H called me "cray cray." LOL
I'm the anti-cville. When a randoms, flamefuls, etc. hits the bottom of page 2, I think we should start a new thread. You shouldn't have to wade through 3 or 4 pages just to throw in a random thought. Keep the thread for hashing out whatever came up in those first two pages and move on to something new. 4 or more pages of new inanities is exhausting. (posted before I read any of these four pages.)
H and I have been invited to my brothers new GFs family's house for Easter on Sunday. They are gazillionaires; like worth hundreds and hundreds of millions of dollars.
Easter brunch is at their 26,000 sqft house complete with an Easter egg hunt with a person dressed up as the Easter Bunny in the gardens. I'm surprised that I am kind of nervous...I am probably going to make an ass of myself or break a $10k vase or something.
My H thinks I'm crazy because I want to help bees.
We have carpenter bees that have been nesting in the eves of our deck for a few years. Carpenter bees don't sting (well, the females CAN, but you would have to handle them) and they're really good pollinators, so I don't want to kill them. But I also want them to stop putting holes in my deck. I read about putting a log/dead wood near where they're trying to nest to redirect them away from the deck.
So yesterday I noticed that our neighbors had just cut down a tree and had logs sitting on the curb. We picked one up. I'm going to strip the bark and pre-drill some holes for the bees. H called me "cray cray." LOL
H and I argue about carpenter bees, too. They haven't shown up here yet this year. I wonder if I can get a log preemptively.
H and I have been invited to my brothers new GFs family's house for Easter on Sunday. They are gazillionaires; like worth hundreds and hundreds of millions of dollars.
Easter brunch is at their 26,000 sqft house complete with an Easter egg hunt with a person dressed up as the Easter Bunny in the gardens. I'm surprised that I am kind of nervous...I am probably going to make an ass of myself or break a $10k vase or something.
My random is that I miss this place already. My two days of being on here all day were fun . My MIL is now in town. Today we've been with her and my niece, and she is like over the top complimentary. I don't have kids, but my mom was never like this, so it is so foreign to me. "Oh my, you are an artist when you tie your shoes! YOU BREATHE SO WELL" etc. I feel like an asshole, but it is kind of driving me nuts. I know she's a grandma and stuff, but she is also like this with my H sometimes, so I have to try hard not to get eye-rolly
My random. My depression and anxiety is getting a lot worse lately. I miss my dog that passed in December. Even though my kids, husband and job make me happy, I still feel like shit.
My random. My depression and anxiety is getting a lot worse lately. I miss my dog that passed in December. Even though my kids, husband and job make me happy, I still feel like shit.
((nurse wife)) Have you done anything to try to treat your depression? It's normal to feel that way after a loss, but if you feel like you're not getting better and this isn't feeling like "you" and it's affecting your day to day life, it might be time to seek out some treatment options or adjust whatever you're already doing. Depression is insidious. It's so easy to start falling into a bad depressive episode and not even realize it until you're pretty far down. You probably already know that if this is something you've been dealing with for a while.
I'm on a couple antidepressants, and anxiety meds too. It all started with ptsd from a car accident last year. My dog would always make me happy, no matter what. Somedays it just hurts more, and I miss him more.
My H thinks I'm crazy because I want to help bees.
We have carpenter bees that have been nesting in the eves of our deck for a few years. Carpenter bees don't sting (well, the females CAN, but you would have to handle them) and they're really good pollinators, so I don't want to kill them. But I also want them to stop putting holes in my deck. I read about putting a log/dead wood near where they're trying to nest to redirect them away from the deck.
So yesterday I noticed that our neighbors had just cut down a tree and had logs sitting on the curb. We picked one up. I'm going to strip the bark and pre-drill some holes for the bees. H called me "cray cray." LOL
H and I argue about carpenter bees, too. They haven't shown up here yet this year. I wonder if I can get a log preemptively.
I admit I've killed them in the past (caulked over the holes) but I've changed! I want to make it up to the bees!
My random. My depression and anxiety is getting a lot worse lately. I miss my dog that passed in December. Even though my kids, husband and job make me happy, I still feel like shit.
I understand. I fell into a really horrible and dangerous depression when my dog (who was my heart) died. I'm so sorry.
We've done so much yard work over the last few days and it still looks like shit. Seriously, it looks like we haven't done a thing. I don't get it.
I think my kid is trying to give up naps and fuuuuck that noise. Every day she has been fighting me until about 4:30 pm, then she finally goes down. It's exhausting. I'm frustrated. This kid and her sleep issues, man.
Because it's early spring. Everything looks like shit right now. I bet even the gardens at Versailles. Muddy, dirty slush, bare trees, funky gardens with no growth or only old dead growth. Don't let it get you down!
My H thinks I'm crazy because I want to help bees.
We have carpenter bees that have been nesting in the eves of our deck for a few years. Carpenter bees don't sting (well, the females CAN, but you would have to handle them) and they're really good pollinators, so I don't want to kill them. But I also want them to stop putting holes in my deck. I read about putting a log/dead wood near where they're trying to nest to redirect them away from the deck.
So yesterday I noticed that our neighbors had just cut down a tree and had logs sitting on the curb. We picked one up. I'm going to strip the bark and pre-drill some holes for the bees. H called me "cray cray." LOL
Save the bees!!! I support this. I want to make a bee house for our yard/garden. And a bat house.
Flameful: I'm aggravated with parents whose kids cry for extended periods of time but don't close the door to their room. I feel for them, I really and truly do, but I do not want to listen to kids cry 24/7. I've been listening to this for 7/8 weeks now. Ive heard enough.
I will come and yell at the children: "Dont make me pull over! I will give you something to cry about! I had to walk uphill to school (both ways)"!!!
I did some major shopping damage today with a friend. Oopsies. 2 pairs of "Gucci" sunglasses "MK" Jet Set tote "LV" leopard print scarf some small cosmetic bags and some faux Lululemon Gather and Crow Crops!
I'm most excited about the LLL crops - they were about $22 (compared to the $78 real version). They don't have the same details as the Gather and Crows, but they are super cute and I think will be good for hiking on our trip to the Philippines later this month.
It bothers me that my in-laws blatantly favor 2 of the grandchildren over the rest (9 grandchildren total). I know that sometimes there is a favorite, but it's so obvious that it's really hurtful to my DH and his other siblings.
I just don't want DD to notice as she gets older. She's only 3 now so she's still oblivious and loves all her grandparents to pieces. It will happen though eventually, the older kids notice and have asked their parents about it. When MIL/FIL were asked by my BIL why they left his son's bday party before he opened gifts (the kid did notice and was heartbroken and cried) FIL said, "We see your kids enough." For the 2 favorites they hosted their bday party at their house.
My DH's entire family lives within a 2 mile radius. MIL has been to our house 5 times in 7 years, 3 of those times were DD's bday party. If we don't go to them, they would never see DD. That's the only complaint I have, I am otherwise lucky to not have crazy in-laws. They are relatively nice people, they are just selfish.
OMG my first post and it's a wall of text! Sorry, just needed to get it out.
ETA because I sound like a bitch. I love all my nieces/nephews, I do not hold the actions of my MIL/FIL against the children. The kids are sweet and aren't at fault here.