Alcoholic friend peed herself at my baby shower

[glassofsyrah]

Apr 3, 2013 21:28:55 GMT -5 angelaa73 said:

I WANT TO GO TO YOUR NEXT BABY SHOWER. my friends are so fucking boring

You need to meet my BFF who lives in SD. My friends are awesome.

[tdk2]

A. That's crazy about your friend B!

B. my baby shower was in a local microbrewery per my request. It was a blast. People had great drinks

[tdk2]

Ps. Shots should be done from a sippy cup or baby bottle when at a baby shower. /gavel

[flex]

Your drunk friend was me 25-plus years ago. I'd do stupid shit like that, then wonder why my friends were distancing themselves from me. I hope she gets help some day.

[Deleted]

That is sad. She sounds like a mess. At my baby shower, my SIL decided to skip the meal and only drink wine (cash bar), proceeded to get shit faced and ended up sleeping in the floor of my mom's living room after. She also told my brother that we all ignored her the entire time and she sat by herself (not true). Good times!

[crazycakes]

Apr 3, 2013 21:55:04 GMT -5 julez said:

I truly hope that your BFF didn't drop this woman and leave her alone when she was this drunk.

I was thinking this too. I see that she kept falling off the couch, but couldn't she have slept it off on the floor until at least she could remember where she was staying at? I would be worried that she would throw up and choke herself or something and no one would be around to help.

I would be avoiding her now, too. I can't take the pressure to always be taking care of crazy drunk people.

[CurlyQ284]

I'm not sure how drunk she was when BFF dropped her off. BFF is a hair holder, so I wouldn't think she would leave her unless she sobered up some. In any case, she is OK. Didn't choke on her puke or anything.

[snakeoiltanker]

Apr 3, 2013 21:12:00 GMT -5 mofongo said:

Apr 3, 2013 21:08:01 GMT -5 Que? said:

People were doing shots at your baby shower?

Eh, I've played drinking games at baby showers, they were co-ed. 

Me too ! Baby showers require social lubricant. At my own we had a Bloody Mary bar.

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I find this really sad and not funny at all. She clearly needs help (though I am not suggesting you should have anything to do with that, I would avoid!)

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[eb777888]

Apr 4, 2013 5:34:40 GMT -5 crazycakes said:

Apr 3, 2013 21:55:04 GMT -5 julez said:

I truly hope that your BFF didn't drop this woman and leave her alone when she was this drunk.

I was thinking this too. I see that she kept falling off the couch, but couldn't she have slept it off on the floor until at least she could remember where she was staying at? I would be worried that she would throw up and choke herself or something and no one would be around to help.

I would be avoiding her now, too. I can't take the pressure to always be taking care of crazy drunk people.

Really? I must be a massive bitch because I think that driving her around for an hour and making sure she gets home safely and inside the house is more than sufficient. 

[partiallysunny]

Yikes!

Sorry your baby shower ended up like that

[crazycakes]

Apr 4, 2013 9:35:32 GMT -5 eb777888 said:

Apr 4, 2013 5:34:40 GMT -5 crazycakes said:

I was thinking this too. I see that she kept falling off the couch, but couldn't she have slept it off on the floor until at least she could remember where she was staying at? I would be worried that she would throw up and choke herself or something and no one would be around to help.

I would be avoiding her now, too. I can't take the pressure to always be taking care of crazy drunk people.

Really? I must be a massive bitch because I think that driving her around for an hour and making sure she gets home safely and inside the house is more than sufficient. 

I knew a guy in college who died when he passed out on his back and choked on his own vomit, so maybe I'm just especially sensitive to this (I didn't know him all that well, he was the ex-boyfriend of one of my sorority sisters). It's probably why I try to avoid people like this now, because I just feel too much responsibility to make sure that they are taken care of.

[eb777888]

Apr 4, 2013 9:44:30 GMT -5 crazycakes said:

Apr 4, 2013 9:35:32 GMT -5 eb777888 said:

Really? I must be a massive bitch because I think that driving her around for an hour and making sure she gets home safely and inside the house is more than sufficient. 

I knew a guy in college who died when he passed out on his back and choked on his own vomit, so maybe I'm just especially sensitive to this (I didn't know him all that well, he was the ex-boyfriend of one of my sorority sisters). It's probably why I try to avoid people like this now, because I just feel too much responsibility to make sure that they are taken care of.

That's really sad. I can definitely see why you'd be sensitive to it.

I'm putting myself in the OP's BFF place. I'm throwing a baby shower and someone gets totally shitfaced and pisses herself and is too drunk to drive home. I'm most definitely making sure she gets home safe and sound, but I don't know if I'm going to let this stranger crash on my couch. I'm just not that nice, lol. Kudos to you, but after someone pissed on my floor, I'd want them to  GTFO. I would not sign up for babysitting a drunk all night.

[cheeseandcrackers]

So.... no more invites for her then? lol