I'm so sorry Kdrake! That is awful she didn't bring you with. Do you like the girlfriends?
I'm just really sad today. I shouldn't be. Hormones?? I realized this morning that I only have one lower incisor and I've been CRYING about it because I didn't notice until now. I'm a freak for having one bottom incisor AND crying about it.
I'm so sorry Kdrake! That is awful she didn't bring you with. Do you like the girlfriends?
I'm just really sad today. I shouldn't be. Hormones?? I realized this morning that I only have one lower incisor and I've been CRYING about it because I didn't notice until now. I'm a freak for having one bottom incisor AND crying about it.
I love one and dislike the other. She sucks. She was very vocal about how I was not "nice enough" to her immediately, and MIL sided with her - to the point of being rude to me and DH and DH screaming at her to F Off and realize who was in the family and who wasn't.
Honestly I think this is part of bitchy gf's plan. Make mil like her and to also exclude me. Or I could be making up conspiracy theories
I'm sorry you were crying!! I don't think understand about the teeth -- did one break off?!?!
I'm so sorry Kdrake! That is awful she didn't bring you with. Do you like the girlfriends?
I'm just really sad today. I shouldn't be. Hormones?? I realized this morning that I only have one lower incisor and I've been CRYING about it because I didn't notice until now. I'm a freak for having one bottom incisor AND crying about it.
I love one and dislike the other. She sucks. She was very vocal about how I was not "nice enough" to her immediately, and MIL sided with her - to the point of being rude to me and DH and DH screaming at her to F Off and realize who was in the family and who wasn't.
Honestly I think this is part of bitchy gf's plan. Make mil like her and to also exclude me. Or I could be making up conspiracy theories
I'm sorry you were crying!! I don't think understand about the teeth -- did one break off?!?!
Omg! That is awful. How does BIL react to it all?
No, like, I never had one! Maybe I had two when I was a baby and was born without an adult incisor or my mouth is too small for it!?? I don't know because no one ever mentioned it to me! I thought it was normal/never paid too much attention. I didn't even realize it when Colin got two bottom incisors. I saw a picture on FB and was like "hey, they've got an extra bottom tooth... Wait, oh. Oh god! It's me that's the freak!"
The Foozzler birth control is like the one thing that is free on my HSA I was previosly paying $25 dollars a month and when my policy renewed it changed and now I pay nothing. So you might want to look into it? I know my HSA covers some things fully (all of DDs check ups, a yearly physical,etc,.)
Oh and we finally got our 1 year pics of Lillian back. I used a Groupon for a photographer and he wouldn't respond to any of my inquiries. I called groupon and he emailed me a link to the pics. There are no good ones. He sucked big time. At one point he said to Lillian "hello, is anybody home?!" when the 1 year old wouldn't look at him for pictures. I'm really pissed at myself for choosing to use a Groupon for something like this
What a dick? Can you show us some pictures? Leave nasty reviews for him!
Oh yes, I plan on writing a review.
Ok I've been trying to download the pics from drop box that he sent. I couldn't figure out how to just share his link...see if this works. I posted 2 in an AW thread but just said they were taken around her birthday.
Oh and we finally got our 1 year pics of Lillian back. I used a Groupon for a photographer and he wouldn't respond to any of my inquiries. I called groupon and he emailed me a link to the pics. There are no good ones. He sucked big time. At one point he said to Lillian "hello, is anybody home?!" when the 1 year old wouldn't look at him for pictures. I'm really pissed at myself for choosing to use a Groupon for something like this
What a dick? Can you show us some pictures? Leave nasty reviews for him!
Ok I've been trying to share the link he sent me from drop box. See if this works. They are all off center, feet, hair is cut off, no retouching or enhancements, not a lot of pics only 60. I had posted 2 in an AW thread but just said they were around her birthday.
The Foozzler birth control is like the one thing that is free on my HSA I was previosly paying $25 dollars a month and when my policy renewed it changed and now I pay nothing. So you might want to look into it? I know my HSA covers some things fully (all of DDs check ups, a yearly physical,etc,.)
I'll have to check on that. That would be awesome! We don't have our plan details yet, even though it starts in less than a month! I know all preventative care is fully covered.
katie sorry about the working husband and the sand! Sand in the house really pisses me off! Thanks for the thought of K-Cups! I did open a new bag of coffee and a new creamer, it is divine! Maybe it will motivate me to wash this hair ! Is it overcast your way too? I think that is just making me feel blah
rxbeth Migraines are the worst, I can't imagine having to work on call with one. Hope you can get some rest today!
Yep, overcast and super humid. I guess it's going to be like this all week...or should I say until October!
I love one and dislike the other. She sucks. She was very vocal about how I was not "nice enough" to her immediately, and MIL sided with her - to the point of being rude to me and DH and DH screaming at her to F Off and realize who was in the family and who wasn't.
Honestly I think this is part of bitchy gf's plan. Make mil like her and to also exclude me. Or I could be making up conspiracy theories
I'm sorry you were crying!! I don't think understand about the teeth -- did one break off?!?!
Omg! That is awful. How does BIL react to it all?
No, like, I never had one! Maybe I had two when I was a baby and was born without an adult incisor or my mouth is too small for it!?? I don't know because no one ever mentioned it to me! I thought it was normal/never paid too much attention. I didn't even realize it when Colin got two bottom incisors. I saw a picture on FB and was like "hey, they've got an extra bottom tooth... Wait, oh. Oh god! It's me that's the freak!"
BIL backed her and said I was being a bitch. MIL then flipped on DH about how I was rude. I directly confronted MIL and asked her to tell me how I was ever rude. She COULDNT bc I WASN'T. It took me telling BIL that I wanted to meet with the gf and "work it out". Then all of a sudden there was no more problem. Bc she didn't want to meet with me.
That is crazy about your tooth!! No dentist ever mentioned it??
Post by charlielove on Jun 4, 2013 11:02:36 GMT -5
Your #2 is my LYFE kdrake8 - I can totally relate. I am always excluded from everything my SIL and MIL do together. Last time I was told I wasn't invited with them because I don't like to shop. Which.... ^o)
Sorry, ladies I shall ball punch of these thing sand people who are causing you stress/sadness today. ALL OF THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FUCK YOU PB. It ate my repsonse to Raynes and Eav :N:
Quick re-do raynes- We had a similar problem, our water company sent us blue strips to put in the toilet tank that will tell you if there is a slow leak, ours did.
eav2c- Could your tooth be impacted? When I was 14 my dentist told me I still had a baby tooth, both top canines never descended and it required oral surgery. Have you had recent x rays?
Your #2 is my LYFE kdrake8 - I can totally relate. I am always excluded from everything my SIL and MIL do together. Last time I was told I wasn't invited with them because I don't like to shop. Which....
ugh I'm sorry you have this too. It truly sucks. It makes me sad. Then it makes me pissed bc in any other part of life I wouldn't let someone treat me like that. I would just cut them out.
And I used to be super close with BIL. Now we have no relationship and it's just sad.
Is your SIL your MIL's real daughter or did she marry in also?
Omg, Kdrake. That is not okay. I hate my SIL but the only person who will ever know is my H! What does the other girlfriend think of whore girlfriend!? Annnnnd no doctor ever mentioned it!
musiclover Yeah, I've had X-rays and all. It was never brought up. I had braces too. I vaguely remember my parents saying it was funny that my brother had an extra set of teeth (lol, seriously) and I was missing a few but that was probably 20 years ago and my dad is too sick to remember and my mom passed so I can't ask them. I rarely go to the dentist, I need to, but I suck. I am going to go and ask them about this!
Your #2 is my LYFE kdrake8 - I can totally relate. I am always excluded from everything my SIL and MIL do together. Last time I was told I wasn't invited with them because I don't like to shop. Which....
ugh I'm sorry you have this too. It truly sucks. It makes me sad. Then it makes me pissed bc in any other part of life I wouldn't let someone treat me like that. I would just cut them out.
And I used to be super close with BIL. Now we have no relationship and it's just sad.
Is your SIL your MIL's real daughter or did she marry in also?
Aw, that definitely sucks.
Yes, she is SIL by marriage too, so it's not like she's any "different" than me. I've been around for 13 years and SIL for 7 years. My SIL is definitely a brown noser and I a not, so that's probably part of it. I have (for the most part) learned to let it go, but then things creep up like that situation and it gets under my skin. Dh's solution is for me to invite them shopping. Ha.
Omg, Kdrake. That is not okay. I hate my SIL but the only person who will ever know is my H! What does the other girlfriend think of whore girlfriend!? Annnnnd no doctor ever mentioned it! !
Idk - the sweet one is so new and so sweet. She is just wonderful to everyone. I don't think she would say anything negative.
BIL, bitch girlfriend and her two kids (she's divorced as has a 4 & 6 yo) took our place in the family beach vacation. We were supposed to go. But it's a 3 bedroom condo. ILs take one room. Then, what? Me DH and Mila in one room ... And BIL, gf, and 2 kids in a room that only has 2 twin beds? Sooooo now they are going and we are staying home.
Whatever. I hate her and her bratty undisciplined children anyway. I'm sure it would be miserable to go with them. I'm still mad they bumped their ACTUAL granddaughter out for two girls and a mom that aren't part of our family. We get to stay home and take care of ILs dogs instead. Glamorous.
ugh I'm sorry you have this too. It truly sucks. It makes me sad. Then it makes me pissed bc in any other part of life I wouldn't let someone treat me like that. I would just cut them out.
And I used to be super close with BIL. Now we have no relationship and it's just sad.
Is your SIL your MIL's real daughter or did she marry in also?
Aw, that definitely sucks.
Yes, she is SIL by marriage too, so it's not like she's any "different" than me. I've been around for 13 years and SIL for 7 years. My SIL is definitely a brown noser and I a not, so that's probably part of it. I have (for the most part) learned to let it go, but then things creep up like that situation and it gets under my skin. Dh's solution is for me to invite them shopping. Ha.
I'm sure that's a huge part of it. I feel like that's how this girl is too. I don't suck up. I didn't feel like I needed to but I guess I was wrong.
Sorry, ladies I shall ball punch of these thing sand people who are causing you stress/sadness today. ALL OF THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FUCK YOU PB. It ate my repsonse to Raynes and Eav
Quick re-do raynes- We had a similar problem, our water company sent us blue strips to put in the toilet tank that will tell you if there is a slow leak, ours did.
eav2c- Could your tooth be impacted? When I was 14 my dentist told me I still had a baby tooth, both top canines never descended and it required oral surgery. Have you had recent x rays?
I like that big FU PB, so it stays in the quote....
The lady from the city suggested food colouring in the tank to test for leaks, so I'll try that tonight, but both out toilets are less than 3 years old, so I doubt that's the issue.
However, you bet your fucking ass I'll be keeping an eye on the meter from now on.
This guy across the cafeteria is the loudest talker I've ever encountered. I can hear 100% of his side of the conversation and 0% of the person he's talking to. How can he not know he's shouting compared to everyone else? Oh, and he's talking about aliens.
Pretty much 90 prcnt of my office was invited to the bruins game tomorrow. I found out about this today when i was doing the expenses. Nice slap in the face. What are pregnant people not allowed to have fun?
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What a dick? Can you show us some pictures? Leave nasty reviews for him!
Oh yes, I plan on writing a review.
Ok I've been trying to download the pics from drop box that he sent. I couldn't figure out how to just share his link...see if this works. I posted 2 in an AW thread but just said they were taken around her birthday.
They aren't bad pictures (she's so cute, how could they be??), but they don't look professional. The parking lot is in the background, things are blurry, etc. You can almost see what he was trying to accomplish, but he fell short. I'm sorry. I would be pissed too.
Ok I've been trying to download the pics from drop box that he sent. I couldn't figure out how to just share his link...see if this works. I posted 2 in an AW thread but just said they were taken around her birthday.
They aren't bad pictures (she's so cute, how could they be??), but they don't look professional. The parking lot is in the background, things are blurry, etc. You can almost see what he was trying to accomplish, but he fell short. I'm sorry. I would be pissed too.
You are exactly right! Nothing is centered, the top of my DHs bald head in the one where he is trying to hold her up lol, the lighting, you know the list goes on. I'm so mad at myself but at the same time what can I do, lesson learned. Maybe we will get 18 month pics. Ugh.
They aren't bad pictures (she's so cute, how could they be??), but they don't look professional. The parking lot is in the background, things are blurry, etc. You can almost see what he was trying to accomplish, but he fell short. I'm sorry. I would be pissed too.
You are exactly right! Nothing is centered, the top of my DHs bald head in the one where he is trying to hold her up lol, the lighting, you know the list goes on. I'm so mad at myself but at the same time what can I do, lesson learned. Maybe we will get 18 month pics. Ugh.
Don't be mad at yourself! There are definitely some keepers! But I would definitely want him to know I was not happy with his work.
You are exactly right! Nothing is centered, the top of my DHs bald head in the one where he is trying to hold her up lol, the lighting, you know the list goes on. I'm so mad at myself but at the same time what can I do, lesson learned. Maybe we will get 18 month pics. Ugh.
Don't be mad at yourself! There are definitely some keepers! But I would definitely want him to know I was not happy with his work.
I was going to write a review online and let Groupon know so maybe they won't work with him. I see they run deals on him a lot. I will write him too, I wasn't even going to bother with him but I think I will, good idea.
Omg, Kdrake. That is not okay. I hate my SIL but the only person who will ever know is my H! What does the other girlfriend think of whore girlfriend!? Annnnnd no doctor ever mentioned it! !
Idk - the sweet one is so new and so sweet. She is just wonderful to everyone. I don't think she would say anything negative.
BIL, bitch girlfriend and her two kids (she's divorced as has a 4 & 6 yo) took our place in the family beach vacation. We were supposed to go. But it's a 3 bedroom condo. ILs take one room. Then, what? Me DH and Mila in one room ... And BIL, gf, and 2 kids in a room that only has 2 twin beds? Sooooo now they are going and we are staying home.
Whatever. I hate her and her bratty undisciplined children anyway. I'm sure it would be miserable to go with them. I'm still mad they bumped their ACTUAL granddaughter out for two girls and a mom that aren't part of our family. We get to stay home and take care of ILs dogs instead. Glamorous.
Man, I would tell them to hire someone. Fuck that.
The fucking bear keeps eating my long responses to each of you, so IF this posts, big hugs to all of you who had shitty days. I really hope tomorrow is better.