I called around to every vet in the area and got her in for 2:40. This vet also boards and said there is usually a 7 to 10 day wait after shots, but since it's an emergency type situation, I can keep her there. Phew. It's about 2 bucks more than our normal kennel; oh well. $16.50 a night still isn't bad, especially to have her boarded at the actual vet's clinic.
Work wouldn't let my husband off for Thursday, so he's going to work Thursday night/Friday morning, come home, and we can drop our dog off on the way, and continue driving up. Let's hope the funeral isn't Friday.
No one has any idea what is happening, where anyone is staying, when the funeral is, when a viewing is, etc.