So very sorry your family is dealing with this. The decisions are the hardest to make and the scariest part. The what if you do this or don't do that have to be the worst.
Keep strong and keep the faith. Wishing you all some peace with whatever decisions are made.
Thoughts and prayers are headed your familys' way.
I don't know what happened, the second page keeps disappearing and reappearing.
hisno1girl, yes, I know your husband's story. It's such a process, even after treatment is "done" there are still so many side effects and so much is uncertain.
Definitely joining in w/ how sorry I am I can't imagine going through this process when there isn't one obvious answer- just complicating everything, & certainly maximizing the 'What if's??' no matter which choice you make. Is it possible to have a family meeting to help Mil & Fil w/ this decision? Like talking out the pro's & con's together? (Even through Skype?) I'm sorry that I really don't have any better advice. Just wanted to extend my heartfelt sympathies toward the awful position you guys are all in