While I'm up..

[nursewife]

I need to vent about DH. Years ago, we agreed that if was going to pick up extra hours on weekends, specifically long weekends, he would talk to me about it first. Tonight he came home saying he is working tomorrow. I want to hurt him!! He never asked, and I've been up 3 nights straight with sick kids. There is no way I'm going to get ready in a house with 2 kids aimed at distraction, get to my hair appointment, and kids dropped off in time to get to the wedding. I want to hurt him, badly. I hate when we agree on something, and he just does what he wants anyway, totally not giving a shit about my plans. I'm so pissed. We discussed this in therapy, and he's doing it again. He has no regard to what the family is doing, and his workaholic tendencies are just getting to be too much. Fuck.

[nursewife]

Please, someone, just tell me I'm right!!

[TrickyBob]

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I'm sorry I'd be pissed, too. Is this something he can change at this point?

[Kristinmo]

You have every right to be angry. With all of that going on, I would be pissed even if you hadn't discussed it previously.

Can anyone come help you with the kids while you get ready?

[nursewife]

No clue if he'll actually change. I'm doubting it. He knows I'm utterly pissed about this still being an issue. Family should always come before work, and his parents engrained in his head that work is more important than anything. Fuck I hate it when he decides its ok to be a complete asshole and leave me with twins to get ready for a wedding. He seriously asked why doing my makeup and what not is so hard when they are awake. Grrrrrr

[TrickyBob]

I've been trying to comment FOREVER, that I'm sorry he's being a jerk. My thumbs up is for you.

[nursewife]

My parents will take them, but they live near the hair dresser and I would have to drop them off at 12, get to hair appointment at 12:30, and somehow rush makeup and getting dressed to get to a wedding starting at 2. Fuck he pisses me off, severely.

[nursewife]

Jun 29, 2013 4:26:22 GMT -5 TrickyBob said:

I've been trying to comment FOREVER, that I'm sorry he's being a jerk. My thumbs up is for you.

Proboards is acting rediculous tonight!! I must have tried for 15 minutes to reply, and then the post keeps vanishing.

[peachykate]

You are right, he's being inconsiderate and I'd be royally pissed.

[mrsukyankee]

He is a complete asshole. That is not on. Have you yelled at him yet?