Ho. Lee. Shit.

[SKP82]

Haha. Are you going to mail them?

[lilafowler]

MAIL THEM!  It will confuse and amuse.

[EmilieMadison]

OMG. I am laughing so fucking hard. I can't help it, I'm sorry! And they made it thorough at least three moves!
DYING!

[jenna]

Ouch. I know MIL and GMIL would take it personally if they did not receive a thank you note within an appropriate time frame.

[cereal K]

oh fuck. i'd be kinda pissed, kinda laughing.

what's the etiquette here? do you mail them anyway or just try to get over it?

[pantsparty]

LOL! Mail them! Don't even put an explanation in them, just right in the mail!

[speckledfrog]

Time to fake your death!

[Deleted]

THIS HAPPENED TO ME WHEN WE MOVED A COUPLE OF MONTHS AGO.




Phew. I feel so much better now that I can finally admit it somewhere.

[wannabe]

OMG, please mail them. And then tell us if people call you all WTF??

[TrickyBob]

Mail them! Better late than never.

[PeonyParty]

Jul 7, 2013 21:22:12 GMT -5 pantsparty said:

LOL! Mail them! Don't even put an explanation in them, just right in the mail!

Yes yes yes!

[girlfriday11]

Awesome! Make one of those dog shaming signs for your husband to hold up and take his pic. Then mail a copy of the photo with each note.

[SKP82]

I would totally mail them.

[sonrisa]

Jul 7, 2013 21:20:32 GMT -5 toledo said:

I can't believe I'm about to admit this to you people.

H just found a stack of wedding thank yous that he never fucking mailed.

Nine years married, people.

I am mortified. But I would be even more so if they weren't all HIS guests.

And you KNOW some of those old folks in his family remember that shit to this day. Shit, we've probably been cut out of a couple wills. lol.

Ha! Are they written but not mailed? I'd stick the old addressed envelope in a bigger one with another note and photos of the kids. At this point it's funny.

[SKP82]

Jul 7, 2013 21:24:11 GMT -5 girlfriday11 said:

Awesome! Make one of those dog shaming signs for your husband to hold up and take his pic. Then mail a copy of the photo with each note.

App like.

[pantsparty]

Jul 7, 2013 21:24:47 GMT -5 toledo said:

Jul 7, 2013 21:21:52 GMT -5 EmilieMadison said:

OMG. I am laughing so fucking hard. I can't help it, I'm sorry! And they made it thorough at least three moves!
DYING!

FIVE moves. Wtf.

Do I really mail them? omg. omg.

YES!

[luckyval]

Jul 7, 2013 21:21:48 GMT -5 lilafowler said:

MAIL THEM!  It will confuse and amuse.

This! There are few truly good amusements left in life

eta: even better, see if the post office can back date the post mark - there's your alibi

[lilafowler]

Jul 7, 2013 21:24:47 GMT -5 toledo said:

Jul 7, 2013 21:21:52 GMT -5 EmilieMadison said:

OMG. I am laughing so fucking hard. I can't help it, I'm sorry! And they made it thorough at least three moves!
DYING!

FIVE moves. Wtf.

Do I really mail them? omg. omg.

Yes,

[SKP82]

Jul 7, 2013 21:24:47 GMT -5 toledo said:

Jul 7, 2013 21:21:52 GMT -5 EmilieMadison said:

OMG. I am laughing so fucking hard. I can't help it, I'm sorry! And they made it thorough at least three moves!
DYING!

FIVE moves. Wtf.

Do I really mail them? omg. omg.

Yes! People might think they got lost in the mail and feel bad for thinking you were an asshole for not sending a thank you.

[EmilieMadison]

Mail them. In the upper left corner, list every address you've had since you got married. And on the back, write "Sorry it's late. Thanks, Obama!"

[EmilieMadison]

But for real, yes! Mail them- as is

[HiC]

send them now...haha!

[annyong]

I've never admitted this to anyone either, but I also found a stack of TY cards that my H was supposed to mail when we moved from MI to OR. Three years after our wedding. Not nine, but still. I was so pissed. I actually packed them because I couldn't decide if I should mail them or not. Almost two years later, I haven't because I chickened out. So, five years.

[Deleted]

Jul 7, 2013 21:24:47 GMT -5 toledo said:

Jul 7, 2013 21:21:52 GMT -5 EmilieMadison said:

OMG. I am laughing so fucking hard. I can't help it, I'm sorry! And they made it thorough at least three moves!
DYING!

FIVE moves. Wtf.

Do I really mail them? omg. omg.

I've been contemplating what to do since I found ours. They're totally ready to go, but apparently H never took them to the mailbox. I hate the idea that people may think that I was a rude bebe bride who didn't bother with thank you notes, but on the other hand I don't know that I want to admit that we're just idiots who manage to lose things like giant stacks of envelopes in our mess of a house.

[pantsparty]

People! Mail them! I would laugh my ass off if I received a thank you years later!

[wannabe]

MAIL THEM!!!!

[hisno1girl]

There has never been a more perfect opportunity for husband shaming than this.

You have to do that.

You just have to.

[sawyerthedestroyer]

This seriously sounds like something H would do.

There probably are thank-you notes for something still stuffed in his laptop bag at this very moment.

[polarbearfans]

I found some that never got mailed out too... Stamps with too low of postage too :/ I feel terrible but not sure how to mail them out without looking like I just forgot for 3 years when really they were written same week as wedding

[nahoku]

Jul 7, 2013 21:24:11 GMT -5 girlfriday11 said:

Awesome! Make one of those dog shaming signs for your husband to hold up and take his pic. Then mail a copy of the photo with each note.

This is an excellent idea! Lol. Sorry, Toledo, I'd be embarrassed too.