Post by lightbulbsun on Jul 11, 2013 8:27:33 GMT -5
My bro and I have been cleaning out my mom's house, and it's so exhausting. It basically hadn't been cleaned for a year because a 24yo boy had been living there alone, so it's gross. And it sucks going through my mom's stuff. We're meeting with a realtor next Wed, and there's so much to do before then. Oh, and it's a 45min-1h drive from my house, so I've been getting home late. I'm just so tired.
I was not ready to get out of bed this morning when the alarm went off but didn't think anything of it until I turned on the TV for my first cup of coffee and a Tyler Perry show was on instead of Fresh Prince which is my first cup of coffee wake-up show. It was then I first checked the clock and realized we got up an hour earlier than normal. Guess H had an early meeting. Maybe this is a confession?
Post by karmasabiotch on Jul 11, 2013 8:33:31 GMT -5
I forgot J's backpack for camp filled with dry clothes and a towel this morning. I can't bring them to him since he's on an island. I told the Director and she said that it will be fine but I feel awdul that I forgot it. He's wearing his bathing suit and a swim shirt. I wish it was 5:00.
My H and I are in a fight and I am not happy about it.
I am traveling for work with my boss and got into Seattle late. We ended up going out for a late dinner around Pike Market, and then he wanted to get a drink, so I said okay. We ended up walking along the route where there's the gum wall, and I was very excited about it, so I had my boss take my picture and I put it on Instagram.
About a half an hour later I start getting texts from my H.
How awkward for me on Instagram...are you on a date?
I need to start fostering these types of relationships with my reps where we tour the town and I snap solo pics of them so they can post.
WTF? So I call him, and he's basically pissed the picture is up, because he thinks it looks like I'm on a freaking date or something. And then he's grilling me about why I'm out so late (probably after 10 at this point), and we didn't even get dinner until almost 8:30. Meanwhile, my boss and I are talking about business literally the entire time.
I tried to call him again when I got back to my hotel, but of course he didn't answer. I sent him an email last night, but he hasn't responded to that. I just feel totally perplexed, I don't get WHY he is so upset. He is in management, and in his world, I guess the whole picture situation wouldn't have happened. But I know me, and I know us, and I just don't know how he thinks people are drawing these conclusions via an Instagram photo, or why the hell he would CARE. I feel like he's completely overreacted, but I really hate fighting, so I just want it to be over.
Anyway, I slept like shit last and apparently I'm getting some sort of silent treatment, and it's not like I can talk to him at any point today anyway. Can't wait to get home and fight, apparently
Gabe fell off the change table and couldn't walk for a bit. He kept falling to his left. I called 911 b/c hello, head injury. But he checked out. He's okay now, paramedics said he looked good and probably hit his leg. At this point the more he walks on it the stronger he's getting, pedi doesn't even want to see him.
Marc is teething something fierce and is all upset about it. I'm still sick, but working b/c i am woman hear me roar. Jake's leg is all jacked up. We're quite the quartet right now.
I hate the feeling of unresolved fights - I'm sorry pants
Is something else going on with your H that would have him feeling insecure?
I don't know! Last night I was crying in my hotel room because I just don't get it. He goes out for dinners all the time with his co-workers or reports and I've never reacted this way. And why would I? I trust him completely. I have NEVER given him a single reason not to trust me. Probably almost any of our friends that would be asked would say we're disgustingly in love and certainly none of them would have drawn the conclusions he's painting by a goddamn picture on Instagram.
I will say he's in management and pretty by the book. I don't think anyone of his reports would have asked him to take a picture, so maybe he's looking at it from that angle. But - it's a picture! Of me! Not of me making out with some dude, or all dressed up and out on the town!
I'm so not motivated for work! I'm going to Rhode Island on from Saturday until Sunday morning and I'm SO EXCITED for the beach. Sorry kevin arnold and kessieblue , I'm totally cheating on you guys
There's a Waterfire Saturday night if you'll be in Prov. My niece and nephew are sleeping over Sat night so I'll be entertaining them most of the weekend. But thanks anyway for the invite! Oh, wait...
Just kidding, have fun at the beach!!!
Have you been to a waterfire this year yet? I heard that are not as good as past years, and just wanted to see if that's actually true.
vicky I'm so happy for you with your job! That sounds like so much fun.
I applied for a job with my old organization on a whim. They were just basically gathering a pool of candidates for future openings. So, I tested and got a high enough score to qualify for a supervisor position! I'm excited to see what comes up. I'm not really looking to work again just yet, but if something cool comes along, why not?
Although, I feel like I'd probably be a pretty crappy supervisor.
H had a fantastic interview yesterday and the guy all but offered the job to him. omg. We'd have to take a little pay cut while he trains but it's nothing we couldn't swing and it would only be for 90 days. Then, he'd be certified (effing finally) and would get a pay raise. It would replace my salary so I could get a part time job to be able to work less to be home with kidletts!
The only downside is that it doesn't provide health insurance, which I can't go without. But, we could figure that out I'm sure.
i've had a nonstop, hacking cough for a couple weeks now. so i brought it up with the doctor. guess what? it's ACID REFLUX. the acid got into my lungs and is irritating them.
I hate the feeling of unresolved fights - I'm sorry pants
Is something else going on with your H that would have him feeling insecure?
I don't know! Last night I was crying in my hotel room because I just don't get it. He goes out for dinners all the time with his co-workers or reports and I've never reacted this way. And why would I? I trust him completely. I have NEVER given him a single reason not to trust me. Probably almost any of our friends that would be asked would say we're disgustingly in love and certainly none of them would have drawn the conclusions he's painting by a goddamn picture on Instagram.
I will say he's in management and pretty by the book. I don't think anyone of his reports would have asked him to take a picture, so maybe he's looking at it from that angle. But - it's a picture! Of me! Not of me making out with some dude, or all dressed up and out on the town!
Ugh. I really don't know.
Yeah, a picture of just you taken on a business trip is seriously no big deal. I would never think someone was on a date based on a solo picture. This is shitty of him.
I hate the feeling of unresolved fights - I'm sorry pants
Is something else going on with your H that would have him feeling insecure?
I don't know! Last night I was crying in my hotel room because I just don't get it. He goes out for dinners all the time with his co-workers or reports and I've never reacted this way. And why would I? I trust him completely. I have NEVER given him a single reason not to trust me. Probably almost any of our friends that would be asked would say we're disgustingly in love and certainly none of them would have drawn the conclusions he's painting by a goddamn picture on Instagram.
I will say he's in management and pretty by the book. I don't think anyone of his reports would have asked him to take a picture, so maybe he's looking at it from that angle. But - it's a picture! Of me! Not of me making out with some dude, or all dressed up and out on the town!
Ugh. I really don't know.
Sorry he's being kinda douchey about it. Seeing a photo like you're describing on a friend's instagram would certainly not make me think anything shady was going on. This sort of thing would definitely happen with H and his employees but he works in a very relaxed environment and we hang out with some of them on the regular. Hopefully he pulls his head out of his ass and this is settled quickly.
pantsparty - my H sends me pictures like you're describing from his business trips and I've never given it a second thought. Sorry your H is being a douche.
pantsparty, is your husband insecure about your boss maybe? It doesn't excuse his behavior but maybe he thinks your boss is trying to take you on dates and it's not exactly you he has the issue with.
I was not ready to get out of bed this morning when the alarm went off but didn't think anything of it until I turned on the TV for my first cup of coffee and a Tyler Perry show was on instead of Fresh Prince which is my first cup of coffee wake-up show. It was then I first checked the clock and realized we got up an hour earlier than normal. Guess H had an early meeting. Maybe this is a confession?
LOL this is how I knew what time it was during mat leave, by what show was on tv.
Post by ginandjucie24 on Jul 11, 2013 10:06:59 GMT -5
I keep thinking about this break from my mom (which hasn't been a break at all, she keeps texting me and posting vague questions on Facebook and sending messages to my mil and my bff) and I can't help but wonder if I didn't have my DS would she be this upset if it was just Mr ginandjucie and myself?
I would be pissed at my DH for accusing me of being out on a date with my freakin´boss. Don´t call him, your DH owes you an apology and should be phoning you.