I'm not judging her. This is just an example but judging would be if I said "She must have OCD because she freaks out about everything" saying "This girl annoys me" is not judging. It's an opinionated fact.
Well, we all know you totally had your shit together professionally and personally at 22, tisevee.
So judging on your part seems reasonable and appropriate.
That is very true. At 22 I was a we little BB Bride getting beat down for dump decisions. You've made a valid point. I won't take back my opinion of her being annoying, because she is. But I will try to justify her annoyance by saying she is young.