My cousin isn't talking to me (basically - no official announcements or anything). And it is because of something where my mom won't do what she needs to but she's made me the fall guy. I'm not going to fucking do taxes for a trust for which mom is the trustee if she won't step up to the plate and do what she needs to as trustee (ie. sell the corpus of the trust and distribute it - as the terms of the trust required her to do *eight years ago*). And I sure as hell am not going to be the one calling my cousin to tell her she is misappropriating funds that technically belong to the trust. Funds that will be taxed as part of the trust so my cousin had better be ready to pony up the cash in April.
I WROTE THEM A MEMO EXPLAINING ALL OF THIS OVER A YEAR AGO!
(Well, not the misappropriation of funds / tax consequences part. Because it hadn't started yet. But I did explain to mom that they would need to do this before the misappropriated funds appeared so that this bullshit wouldn't arise.) And that memo is why my cousin won't talk to me. She thinks I'm the one who is proposing all this shit. Which I'm not - I'm just the only one who actually read the trust. Other than being the one stuck with the tax work, it's none of my fucking business (I'm not a beneficiary, mom and cousins are). Yet, my mom is adamant that my cousins should somehow be the ones selling the corpus. Which they can't do. Because she is the trustee. Which I explained. In my memo.
Oy vey, sonrisa. That sounds like a nightmare. Do you like this cousin or is this no big loss? LOL
We get along well. Which makes it all the worse.
That is the worst. I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. I hate family drama, especially as it relates to death/estates. People are at their absolute strangest/worst when someone has died.
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I feel you bonquiqui. Its 4:30 and I can't fucking sleep
I feel so disoriented like i don't even what know is going on. I didn't go to bed at lal yesterday, and now i haven't beden to bed today. that is a long time.
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I feel you bonquiqui. Its 4:30 and I can't fucking sleep
im sorry why can';t you sleep?
Because I have been progressively falling asleep later and later and subsequently waking up later and later. I think it'll fix itself tonight since I didn't fall asleep until 6, but I had to get up at 9. I'm probably going to be pretty tired tonight.
I think I'm also adjusting to our new place after we moved since there was a lot of white noise at our old apartment and it's dead silent at night here.
My car was fixed to the tune of 1300 dollars on Monday. The repair man asked DH multiple times if someone had hit me or I had hit someone because the damage was similar to other cases. He mentioned it to me, and the lightbulb went off that my athletic director had slid into me last week when his anti-lock brakes didn't work. He is sending it through insurance so hopefully the claim pays out and we aren't out all of that money
I'm not following. What did you think the damage was from?
There wasn't any visible damage when he done it and so we didn't think since it was at such slow speed that anything had happened to the vehicle. We figured it was a run of the mill car breakdown as its an older vehicle and I wasn't thinking that the accident caused it until the repairman mentioned he had seen stuff like this before. Basically we were so stressed about fixing the car from something we thought just happened due to age, we hadn't considered him hitting it. (Not my brightest moment)