What is too kinky for you?

[gozf]

Jun 26, 2012 13:58:36 GMT -5 melindafelinda said:

Jun 26, 2012 13:33:08 GMT -5 eightangryreindeer said:

scatplay, watersports, horseplay/buttplugs, adult babies, drawing blood, intra-species, necrophilia.

I would agree with these. Except I would be a furry if that counts as intra-species.

I would be a furry, too.

[alzi]

All of this is too kinky for me.

[salimoo]

Melinda and GOZF are you serious!?

[gozf]

I made out with the guy who was Mr. Peanut when I was at the beach one summer. And some creeper in a Grinch costume hit on me at a kid's party, so I figure I'm, like, 1/4 there.

I'm not actually turned on by mascots or costumes, but if someone I was into was? Sure, I'd give it a try!

[Deleted]

god, probably everything.

leaving aside the obvious (like necophilia), it would depend on how it was brought up and by whom. i think certain partners encourage a higher level of kink than others. in any event, i'm sure i err on the side of gbcn prude, which makes me real world harlot.

[emjacobs]

Jun 26, 2012 13:47:09 GMT -5 Lucy Honeychurch said:

I feel like there are certain "givens" in this category. But then maybe not. People surprise you.

Watersports, scatplay (ew), heavy bondage or sadism, overt fetishism, extra people or animals, etc.

Basically "this".

My basic view is, if it can't be included in a movie starring Ryan Reynolds in the theaters it can't happen in by bedroom. Unless Ryan Reynolds is in my bedroom performing said acts.

I've done anal, I prefer not to any more.

I do enjoy light choking and hair pulling.

[vajeana]

Same as gozf. BF has not requested any of them, and we've had those "talks"...they aren't things he desires either.

[vajeana]

Wait, I didn't see the stuff about furries. I don't know what that is really...

[speckledfrog]

I've heard of golden showers, I just didn't realize that pee stuff was called watersports.

[mamasaurus]

Anything with kids, animals, or corpses. Poop is probably also never gonna happen.

[pantsparty]

This isn't a kinky thing - I hate when my H wants to talk during sex, ask me about fantasies, etc. I'm sure that makes me a Prudey McPruderson, but seriously, shut up and let's fuck.
I will definitely try stuff, but it seems more distracting to me. I want to enjoy my H, not throw a bunch of props into our sex life.

[mamasaurus]

Jun 26, 2012 13:36:37 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

I can barely make myself do doggie style.

But tamb, it's just a style! You don't have to go outside or anything.

www.dailymotion.com/video/x7mu5t_knocked-up-doggy-style_fun

[vajeana]

Jun 26, 2012 14:27:01 GMT -5 pantsparty said:

This isn't a kinky thing - I hate when my H wants to talk during sex, ask me about fantasies, etc. I'm sure that makes me a Prudey McPruderson, but seriously, shut up and let's fuck.
I will definitely try stuff, but it seems more distracting to me. I want to enjoy my H, not throw a bunch of props into our sex life.

Ohhh see, I like props. My most recent purchase, the WeVibe, has been very well received!

[salimoo]

I'm fascinated by furries. I want GOZF and Melinda to tell me more. Like, what makes an animal costume sexy? Is it only certain costumes?

[frezza]

So James Deen is the big new porn star that all the teenagers are into (God i sound old). Dateline and 20/20 did stories on him I think.

I looked up one of his videos and It was all enema play. I am adding that to the list.

[eb777888]

I've never said no to anything H has suggested. But he doesn't have any weird fetishes, either. He's a pretty normal guy in this regard.

I would never do watersports, threesomes, scatplay....I wouldn't do any of the weird stuff.

[Deleted]

If there's a kinky scale from like, 1-10, I'd be like a 2.

I dunno if it's because I'm prude or just lazy, bc if H was all "You should put on this giant bear fur suit" I'd be like "Ugh, seriously? I just shaved my legs today, why am I covering them up with fur? And what if the head part of the costume gets hot? That'll probably make my hair frizz and I already straightened it for work tomorrow. Do I have to get this suit dry cleaned afterwards? How much does a furry suit cost to dry clean? God, I don't want to run to the cleaners tomorrow, but I don't want a bear full of jizz hanging out in my laundry hamper either."

[bab]

I've never heard of scatplay or watersports until just now. I suppose I understand why they call it "waterplay" but WTF does scatplay mean? what does it stand for? Is it an acronym? LOL

Look, I'm not into this crazy shit OK? Enlighten me.

[dana2006]

H would never suggest anything remotely kinky, b/c he's even more vanilla than I am. One time I suggested trying something rougher, not handcuff rough but just a notch up from the usual, and was turned down immediately. FTR I'd draw my line at anal.

[gozf]

Jun 26, 2012 14:41:59 GMT -5 salimoo said:

I'm fascinated by furries. I want GOZF and Melinda to tell me more. Like, what makes an animal costume sexy? Is it only certain costumes?

I actually have no idea. I'm personally not into it. But, sure, I'd try it! What the heck? I had a lot of stuffed animals. I like to snuggle. I'm always cold. It doesn't sound like a bad fit.

[eb777888]

scatplay refers to shit fetish.

[melindafelinda]

I want to be able to have sex and feel pretty even when I look like crap and I haven't shaved my legs in months.

[iamgrace]

Scat is just another word for poo.

[Deleted]

Jun 26, 2012 13:33:08 GMT -5 eightangryreindeer said:

scatplay, watersports, horseplay/buttplugs, adult babies, drawing blood, intra-species, necrophilia.

prude

[mx27]

Jun 26, 2012 15:09:46 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

I have become extremely boring in the sack and mostly just like to "make love." (lol)

OMG, that is the worst!

jk, well, sort of. i definitely prefer rough-ish sex to tenderness.

[hotmess]

Aw tamb that makes me sad for you. I mean, if you're both happy then whatever but the idea of being overly emotional about it makes me want to give you a hug - LOL!

I love hands on my neck. I love it rough. And I've had to be upfront with myself and I know that I could absolutely not be in a relationship in which a man was NOT dominant in the bedroom. I'm very strong outside of the bedroom and want an equal relationship... but I love being tossed around. LOL. I thought I was a little kinky until I joined fetlife and then realized that there's a bunch of REALLY kinky people out there that are way beyond my hard limits!

[mudslide]

I'm definitely way more kinky than H. It's kind of frustrating sometimes.

[Bernadine]

I like to have my hair pulled. That's about as kinky as I get, lol.

[Deleted]

I'm pretty much on the same page as all of you although DH is into shibari and we have played around with some rope.