I realize that I would have my family and ... like 2 local people that would come (blondnearby being one of them!). I kind of don't want to have a local wedding since most of my friends are on the East Coast!
Of course I could meet a guy on the East Coast between now and my non existent future wedding day, but it's just random.
It also has made me realize that if I died, my funeral's attendance would be totally lacking unless my parents agreed to stream it on the internet. THEN I would have more people there.
This makes me feel like a total loser. Womp, womp.
*cough, cough* I'm assuming you just forgot about your adoring fans in the Midwest, riiiiiggghhhtttt???
Lol. I've never been into big weddings personally. You can always elope and then have a big east coast party! If/when I do it again I think I'm gonna fly to vegas!! Ehh..who knows?!
Totally random for me bc I thought of my future wedding with non existent fiancé this wknd too.
I would have a beach wedding in Hawaii with no fam. Then I want to throw a reception in the winter with fake snow. I'm in Tx. A mix of both 'seasons'. Im only marrying one more time. ::fingers crossed::
My 1st wedding was in Vegas with 20 guests. I stood in line for a marriage license 4 hrs ( it was a holiday wknd). I don't understand the quick Vegas weddings movies sensationalize.
When you get married again I'll be there...no matter the location! Actually, I really think every wedding going forward should have at LEAST one SOer in attendance! Can I get two more Indians???
When you get married again I'll be there...no matter the location! Actually, I really think every wedding going forward should have at LEAST one SOer in attendance! Can I get two more Indians???
Second Indian! And I LOVE weddings. I had a blast at my own large-ish one (150 people is large to ME but not people with the 600 people).
I realize that I would have my family and ... like 2 local people that would come (blondnearby being one of them!). I kind of don't want to have a local wedding since most of my friends are on the East Coast!
Of course I could meet a guy on the East Coast between now and my non existent future wedding day, but it's just random.
It also has made me realize that if I died, my funeral's attendance would be totally lacking unless my parents agreed to stream it on the internet. THEN I would have more people there.
This makes me feel like a total loser. Womp, womp.
My wedding guest list on my side would be about 75 percent the same. I'm still pretty close to most of the people invited. The 25 percent I'd probably about make up with new friends. However I'm fully planning to get married in Vegas so I'm guessing a lot fewer people will attend. I had 90 at my first and would guess 20-30 would be at my hypothetical second.
I have thought about the same thing. While all my family is around here it would be weird doing it all over again in front if the people that have already witnessed one wedding of mine.
My friends would eat you up. You should move here, find your new spouse and live happily ever after.
Ask mcc, she got hit on by, like, 5 hipster dudes. My crowd is real friendly.
Very true, and at least 2 of them had showered in the past week I never did get that missed connection and I'm still in love with your gay BFF, well, only from afar since he was a douche about your bday...and because, well, he's gay.
Oh, I've already decided that I'm not planning a big wedding again. If hypothetical H#2 wants a big wedding he better be able to afford a wedding planner. I DIY'd most of my wedding, which meant I loved pretty much everything, but fuck, it was exhausting.
I'm torn. I gave in a lot to my xH (red flag, anyone??) for that wedding. I'd love something really fun. A big party, but I don't care for some wedding traditions so not quite sure...
I would be happy with eloping, too - it will depend on what the nonexistent fiance' thinks. haha. And I want to marry someone that will tolerate me in a black dress.
But seriously, getting married at 18 I lost a lot of my friends (my own fault, mostly, I was just super absorbed in my own life), and then divorcing I lost the friends I'd had when married. It just sucks!
Lol at the black dress! I never realized you were only 18 when you got married.
I went to one. It was supposedly an engagement party. My friend and I were running late and I kept saying, "relax, it's not like this is a wedding where you have to be on time." Cue me being wrong.
I just planned a "big" wedding and I am SO glad it's over. It was a fun party and I love how everything turned out but the planning was not fun for me.
XH and I went to Vegas with 50 family members/friends, so there was no planning involved there.
Post by blondnearby on Nov 12, 2013 2:07:04 GMT -5
I will definitely be at both mp! My first wedding was what my mother wanted so my next (if I do, still undecided if I want to ever again) will be small and intimate. It will be what me and FFI want.