In years past we would get together around 3 and eat dinner around 5. This year we aren't expected until 4. This morning I got an email from my mom that we might not be expected until 5! That means actually eating probably 6:30-7. Which means dessert won't be done until well after 8. I don't want to be there that late! I have an hour drive home and a sick toddler. GRRRR ARRRRG