I feel like we're due for an update from starrieskies too.
Everything was filed last month!! I'll need to go in for some kind of testimony in about 2 months and it should be final in late April (right about Stbx's birthday, hehe)
Haven't filed yet, but soon (we were waiting until we got our taxes done, that's happening this weekend). But I am looking at houses this weekend and hoping to land my #1 pick so I can move in on March 1. I've joined meetup and joined one group, will be going to a meetup on 2/15-so I am carrying out the plan for building a life post-divorce. Now I just need to find a church and settle on a place to live.
I'm doing all right with everything else so far. Work's been kind of a jerk lately (mostly my fault). Stbx isn't a fan of my breezy attitude though, I've been civil and considerate to him at home--sometimes it seems like he feels bad other times he's testy.
I do want to get laid something fierce though. Not looking for it, just wanting it.
They know something is going on, but I don't think they know what exactly. He's referring to the girls he sees as his "friend" so they just know he's going out with a "friend". DD wrote a song last week about people breaking up, so I'm sure she's picked up on more than we realize. Once I have the house lined up, we'll have the talk with DD and a lighter version with the boys. I want to be able to show them where we'll live, so they don't worry as much.
I have my therapy appointment on Friday (was moved b/c of the weather). She and I are going to do more planning for life "after" and I have a couple other things I want to talk to her about. I'm half hoping to see our old couples counselor too because I really like him.