Post by marylennox on Feb 15, 2014 15:40:53 GMT -5
Okay, of course I agree that it's shitty to put other people down, but come on. Doesn't everyone gossip from time to time? Individually we love these people, but they are not very good at being in a healthy relationship together, in our opinion. I don't think it's my place to tell someone their relationship sucks, but yeah, I will absolutely tell my husband that I think their relationship sucks, because with him I have no filter. Maybe it's not nice to compare ourselves to them, but we do. Our intent is not to be malicious. We do think we have a great relationship, and I don't see a problem with sharing that sentiment with each other.
I can't wait to tell DH that the 7 years of marriage have been just playing house. Maybe one day we'll have kids and then we'll understand what marriage really is. Until then, we can just shrug everything off because shit isn't real.
I think what pisses me off most is Peache's suggestion that married people have the option of just getting divorced if shit doesn't work out because they don't have kids. But obviously those with kids should try harder because life and marriage means more with kids.
Fuck you.
You know why I don't have kids? Because my fucking reproductive system fucking sucks. And my marriage still comes with problems, real problems, and we work on them. Why? Because we are fucking adults that care and kids or lack there of, don't dictate that realness. Our marriage is just as meaningful as someone else's with kids.
Again, fuck you.
This makes me angry. I've already been angry and touchy about the topic of kids, especially lately. But to suggest that you are somehow better or have it together more because of them? What a joke.
I think what pisses me off most is Peache's suggestion that married people have the option of just getting divorced if shit doesn't work out because they don't have kids. But obviously those with kids should try harder because life and marriage means more with kids.
Fuck you.
You know why I don't have kids? Because my fucking reproductive system fucking sucks. And my marriage still comes with problems, real problems, and we work on them. Why? Because we are fucking adults that care and kids or lack there of, don't dictate that realness. Our marriage is just as meaningful as someone else's with kids.
Again, fuck you.
This makes me angry. I've already been angry and touchy about the topic of kids, especially lately. But to suggest that you are somehow better or have it together more because of them? What a joke.
MY personal experience does not have anything to do with you. I (and I alone) am more willing to work through things that might otherwise have been deal breakers before we had our son. I'm sorry that you are going through IF- it's hell. I've had a Fallopian tube removed and the other is partially blocked. I get it. In no way did I say that you wouldn't be willing to work through something because you don't have kids. That is what I'm saying about MY marriage.
Ummm, I need to know more and this thing is 15 pages. Don't make me search! God i am addicted to this show.
He took it down!! It was basically that Kristen tried to come onto him and he videotaped her trying and that she sold a story to InTouch magazine (I guess it's coming out this week) that they hooked up while they were in NY filming WWHL. And that when asked on WWHL he had to play along with what she said bc bravo didn't want him to spoil the rest of the season.
MY personal experience does not have anything to do with you. I (and I alone) am more willing to work through things that might otherwise have been deal breakers before we had our son. I'm sorry that you are going through IF- it's hell. I've had a Fallopian tube removed and the other is partially blocked. I get it. In no way did I say that you wouldn't be willing to work through something because you don't have kids. That is what I'm saying about MY marriage.
Ok. I calmed the eff down and reread. I amend my fuck you's and redistribute them to idoinjuly, which is where my anger was really coming from and where it should have initially gone. I read the exchange and felt like you were agreeing with her on the first go.
Teaches me to reread before typing. *stuffs foot in mouth* Delicious.
MY personal experience does not have anything to do with you. I (and I alone) am more willing to work through things that might otherwise have been deal breakers before we had our son. I'm sorry that you are going through IF- it's hell. I've had a Fallopian tube removed and the other is partially blocked. I get it. In no way did I say that you wouldn't be willing to work through something because you don't have kids. That is what I'm saying about MY marriage.
Ok. I calmed the eff down and reread. I amend my fuck you's and redistribute them to idoinjuly, which is where my anger was really coming from and where it should have initially gone. I read the exchange and felt like you were agreeing with her on the first go.
Teaches me to reread before typing. *stuffs foot in mouth* Delicious.
Shit, well....I guess I have nothing else to contribute to the board then.
I'm referring to marylennox. That whole thing makes me cringe. Don't spend time with people so you can turn around and talk about them behind their backs.
Yeah, I agree. Sorry, but that post came off as icky. Those people are her IRL friends? Gross.
I can't stand people who make it their plight in life to talk about other people behind their back. I find that a level of low self-esteem/immaturity of the highest order. Grow up.
Shit, well....I guess I have nothing else to contribute to the board then.
No, no, it's okay to talk about your friends/acquaintances/neighbours/siblings/ILs/co-workers/etc. on here, just not IRL with your spouse who knows them too. Internet - we're totally down with that.
ETA - nuggetbrain, at the very least continue NuggetSister updates.
This bothers me. Also, do you have kids? If you don't yet but plan to, hold off on your marriage of the year award until after you have kids. That's when shit gets real.
LAME.
That cliché is weak, people face plenty of challenges outside of having kids.
Yes, I know this. I apologize that I hurt feelings. In my own experience, in my marriage, having kids is when shit got real. My husband and I were blissful and I couldn't imagine anything rocking that. But then my kids came along and our marriage has had a tough weeks here and there. We, luckily, had few challenges before kids. I know that others can experience numerous other issues outside of kids. I made a blanket statement, and for that I apologize.
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This morning I was half asleep and my boyfriend and I were laying in different directions so he started rubbing my feet. Then he started picking at them! He asked me if I had one of those pumice stones lol. I told him that I did, but couldn't find it since we moved. He said oh ok, and continued picked, ahhh. I said do you still love me and my gross feet? He said, yep, of course. That's rue love right there!