HUGE ((hugs)) I'm so sorry your DH isn't being here for you right now. I feel like mine is doing the same thing and it sucks. We are so busy with house projects and he's feeling overwhelmed and I do get it (we are crazy busy and it's mostly self-inflicted...we need to slow down)...but tomorrow is our loss anniversary and it sucks. I am doing ok but sad that I won't be going home to see him tonight...but it's probably a good things since he seems so busy and consumed.
I am so, so sorry. Words cannot express how sorry I am and how sad I am knowing that you are going through this again. Please take care of yourself and let us know if there's anything we can do. ((hugs))
((Hugs)) to you, too. I'm sorry, anniversaries are tough, especially when your DH is not on the same page. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow. I hope you guys are able to slow down soon and get some quality time together.
I wish you lived around here so we could hang out, because we seem to be on all of the same pages!
Thank you! I wish we lived closer too...it would be great to meet you IRL and hang out, have a beer, or whatever!
DH and I had a good talk last night before I went to bed (I spent the night at my best friend's house, which was good and bad all at the same time. Great to see her and her awesome 7 month old daughter but hard to be away from DH right now). I know he's here for me but it's hard because it's just not the same for him (he wasn't at the appointment with me and the whole thing was just a traumatic experience...we were completely blindsided, I had the confirmation u/s by myself (even though my mom was outside the room, they wouldn't let her be there with me) and I watched them type in "no fetal heartbeat", had to call DH and tell him the news, etc)...even our second loss isn't nearly as bad because we were "prepared" and DH was with me for everything.
But, today is much better...at least so far, I've only been awake for 45 minutes!
((specialk)) sorry you are having to go through this.
In the 2WW, 4DP IUI, getting progeserone drawn tomorrow. trying not to think about the days and or anything until beta on the 24th. If I go on travel for work next week that will help out big time. Want to be optimistic, but am pretty ambivilant on the chance of success even though the RE was really happy with everything this cycle
Thanx ladies. If I go by my typical 10-11 LP which could be possible with everything but temps as 11 days ago I had the worst O pain I have ever gotten.
Typical spot for the pain but it's normally a 2-3/10, and it was a 6/10 and it woke me up at 3am. (2-3/10 & 6/10 on the pain scale)
If I did O 10 days ago then there wasn't even a chance of getting a BFP.
I need to stop looking into this. It's only making things worse.