Oh man. He is totally kidding himself and trying to convince both of you that he isn't going to get taken to the cleaners. I hope that this whole process goes smoothly for you and that you come out on the other side, happy and whole.
WTF is with these guys being assholes, causing the divorces and then thinking they have any say whatsoever in the outcome? There must be some super secret meetings they go to where they are hand fed this delusional shit.
You are doing amazing. It is terrifying seeing your life altered by the one person you thought had your back. It is scary as shit moving forward without them. But you are so much better off now. Trust me. I'm right here where you are. PM me any time if you need. So so many hugs.
I am soooo sorry that he's such an arrogant, delusional asshole. I can imagine your life feels like a tilt a whirl right now and like you were hit by a truck.
You're young, smart, gorgeous, and he's a damn fool. I hate that this happened to you but I'm glad he showed his true colors before you had more years together. I want to kick the asshole in the nuts for you, repeatedly. He is such a douche and what a crappy crappy thing to learn about someone you love. Many many hugs and drinks to you.
You should have thought about this before you threw it all away. Oh, wait that was HIM! It's really great that he's now going to give you dozens of reasons to be happy you are rid off him.
Post by flamingeaux on Mar 25, 2014 8:34:38 GMT -5
It's almost too bad you threw away that skank's necklace, you could have given it back to him at the division of property. It would have been nice for him to have something....
Did y'all have a pre-nup? What makes him think that he has the ability to decide exactly what you will agree on for the divorce settlement? I'm sure he wasn't planning on 50% of all marital assets in his pay out.
I would like to punch your STBXH in his tiny little nut sack.
He is taking a page straight from the unremorseful cheater's handbook where he still stupidly thinks HE holds all the cards. Can't wait til he gets slapped with a big hard dose of reality when he gets served in more ways than one.
He doesn't know it now but he has truly made the biggest mistake of his life.
Hugest of hugs to you, HC, you are an amazing woman.
[quote soWTF is with these guys being assholes, causing the divorces and then thinking they have any say whatsoever in the outcome? There must be some super secret meetings they go to where they are hand fed this delusional shit.
You are doing amazing. It is terrifying seeing your life altered by the one person you thought had your back. It is scary as shit moving forward without them. But you are so much better off now. Trust me. I'm right here where you are. PM me any time if you need. So so many hugs.
You are strong, and you will get through this. It is hard, and will be with the emotions, but think of this, you are rid of him now instead of 10 years and 4 kids later. He has NO idea what kind of shitstorm is coming his way. "You will only get what I give you" ha, he will eat those words right quick in front of the judge. Think of that satisfaction and it will get you through.
Honestly, HE sounds like the terrified one. He's grasping at straws and putting on this badass/asshole front, but it sounds to me like he is desperate. Good.