A Miracle (Well to me..)

[smock]

Uh, so do you have to give her away again?

Why did you move into a place with a no dog rule if you had dogs?

[motzie]

^o)

[missyumi]

I moved back with my parents so it would be easier to move to my H's hometown and they said no dogs. They also had dogs and decided to give them away.

By her condition my parents decided to keep her.

[car.ramrod]

Jul 12, 2012 15:19:39 GMT -5 smock said:

Uh, so do you have to give her away again?

Why did you move into a place with a no dog rule if you had dogs?

Ditto this. I hope you just told the other family where she is so your dog doesn't get excited to see you and you get rid of her again. :-(

[missyumi]

Jul 12, 2012 15:23:54 GMT -5 car.ramrod said:

Jul 12, 2012 15:19:39 GMT -5 smock said:

Uh, so do you have to give her away again?

Why did you move into a place with a no dog rule if you had dogs?

Ditto this. I hope you just told the other family where she is so your dog doesn't get excited to see you and you get rid of her again.

The other family will not be getting her back. She looks malnourished and I want to help get healthy again.

[motzie]

Jul 12, 2012 15:23:37 GMT -5 @missyumi said:

I moved back with my parents so it would be easier to move to my H's hometown and they said no dogs. They also had dogs and decided to give them away.

By her condition my parents decided to keep her.

WTMF to all of you? Your parents made you got rid of your dogs and also got rid of their own?!? Please, never get pets again. Wtf.

[missyumi]

Jul 12, 2012 15:31:03 GMT -5 motzie said:

Jul 12, 2012 15:23:37 GMT -5 @missyumi said:

I moved back with my parents so it would be easier to move to my H's hometown and they said no dogs. They also had dogs and decided to give them away.

By her condition my parents decided to keep her.

WTMF to all of you? Your parents made you got rid of your dogs and also got rid of their own?!? Please, never get pets again. Wtf.

I had no choice but to get rid of her. I literally tried everything so I could keep her. I had a feeling something was going to happen but last no one listen.

[fussbucket]

Add me to the WTF pile. How selfish are you? Do you have no sense of responsibility for anything other than you doing just exactly what you want?

[fussbucket]

Jul 12, 2012 15:34:07 GMT -5 @missyumi said:

Jul 12, 2012 15:31:03 GMT -5 motzie said:

WTMF to all of you? Your parents made you got rid of your dogs and also got rid of their own?!? Please, never get pets again. Wtf.

I had no choice but to get rid of her. I literally tried everything so I could keep her. I had a feeling something was going to happen but last no one listen.

I have no idea what this second sentence means but if you have any hope of redeeming yourself here you might want to provide a fairly long list of everything you tried to keep her, including looking at every vacant apartment in town and not moving at all.

[missyumi]

Um wow I guess I would have to explain myself.

I never wanted to get rid of my dog AT ALL. I tried everything to keep her even against my wishes to keep her in a cage at night. The people who wanted her also wanted my parents dog and I thought since they would be together that she would be fine. It broke my heart to give away. But I had a choice to either signing another lease to my apartment even if I wasn't going to live there and pay the rent anyways even living out of state or give away my dog.

[motzie]

Jul 12, 2012 15:39:04 GMT -5 fussbucket said:

I have no idea what this second sentence means but if you have any hope of redeeming yourself here you might want to provide a fairly long list of everything you tried to keep her, including looking at every vacant apartment in town and not moving at all.

:Y:

[fussbucket]

So what you're saying is that you moved to a whole STATE that doesn't accept dogs. What state is this that contains zero housing units that can accommodate dogs? Is it Delaware. I'm just going to guess Delaware.

[smock]

You lived with your parents for a month, for your convenience, and they said you had to get rid of your dogs so you did? Why not just get a new apartment in your H's town instead of the temporary situation? You do realize that you had other choices, right?

Also, I would be so fucking pissed at my parents if they told me to get rid of my dog that they probably would have been uninvited from my wedding.

[missyumi]

Jul 12, 2012 15:44:30 GMT -5 fussbucket said:

So what you're saying is that you moved to a whole STATE that doesn't accept dogs. What state is this that contains zero housing units that can accommodate dogs? Is it Delaware. I'm just going to guess Delaware.

I'm moving Georgia. In the area all the rentals is either cats only or no pets at all. But now that my parents see her condition and I had a talk with them they decided to keep her until I can accommodate her. I know they will keep her self as she has lived with them because we had her before I moved out on my own years ago.

[10outof9]

Jul 12, 2012 15:41:28 GMT -5 @missyumi said:

Um wow I guess I would have to explain myself.

I never wanted to get rid of my dog AT ALL. I tried everything to keep her even against my wishes to keep her in a cage at night. The people who wanted her also wanted my parents dog and I thought since they would be together that she would be fine. It broke my heart to give away. But I had a choice to either signing another lease to my apartment even if I wasn't going to live there and pay the rent anyways even living out of state or give away my dog.

Right, because I'm sure there was literally no other solution. ^o)
In the future, you should consider more carefully before getting a pet.

[Deleted]

Jul 12, 2012 15:44:30 GMT -5 fussbucket said:

So what you're saying is that you moved to a whole STATE that doesn't accept dogs. What state is this that contains zero housing units that can accommodate dogs? Is it Delaware. I'm just going to guess Delaware.

I love you, fussaroo!

[missyumi]

Jul 12, 2012 15:47:58 GMT -5 10outof9 said:

Jul 12, 2012 15:41:28 GMT -5 @missyumi said:

Um wow I guess I would have to explain myself.

I never wanted to get rid of my dog AT ALL. I tried everything to keep her even against my wishes to keep her in a cage at night. The people who wanted her also wanted my parents dog and I thought since they would be together that she would be fine. It broke my heart to give away. But I had a choice to either signing another lease to my apartment even if I wasn't going to live there and pay the rent anyways even living out of state or give away my dog.

Right, because I'm sure there was literally no other solution.
In the future, you should consider more carefully before getting a pet.

Um I've had her 6 years before all this happened. I just wanted to share that I got my dog back and despite her new owners lack of effort I got her back by looking for her myself.

[PinkSquirrel]

That's not really a great excuse. Georgia has a lot of pet friendly hotels hotels.petswelcome.com/georgia/

[Deleted]

Jul 12, 2012 15:47:05 GMT -5 @missyumi said:

I'm moving Georgia. In the area all the rentals is either cats only or no pets at all. But now that my parents see her condition and I had a talk with them they decided to keep her until I can accommodate her. I know they will keep her self as she has lived with them because we had her before I moved out on my own years ago.

I totally hear you.

I live in a cardboard box, in Savannah, GA in Forsythe Park because I can't have dogs here. No one can. No one I know who rents had a dog. They don't allow them.

So a cardboard box it is.

[gault]

Your writing style confuses the fuck out of me.

I have no fucks left.

[smock]

And where does your H live? Why couldn't your dog stay in his place until you moved in together? I'm assuming that since you're now married you aren't going to stay at your parents' house, right?

[missyumi]

He's staying with me at my parents for another week while we finish packing my things. As I said his place in Georgia doesn't accommodate dogs and I'm moving to his place because he can't transfer his job so I made the sacrifice to transfer my job.

[missyumi]

Jul 12, 2012 15:54:57 GMT -5 gault said:

Your writing style confuses the fuck out of me.

I have no fucks left.

Sorry typing from my cell.

[smock]

And when you move into his place, where's the dog going?

[starrieskies]

Why would your H have to transfer his job to move to a dog friendly place?

[missyumi]

Jul 12, 2012 16:02:43 GMT -5 starrieskies said:

Why would your H have to transfer his job to move to a dog friendly place?

He's not because he is unable to and his place in Georgia is not dog friendly. I'm transferring my job.

[starrieskies]

Jul 12, 2012 16:05:31 GMT -5 @missyumi said:

Jul 12, 2012 16:02:43 GMT -5 starrieskies said:

Why would your H have to transfer his job to move to a dog friendly place?

He's not because he is unable to and his place in Georgia is not dog friendly. I'm transferring my job.

You're missing my point. See, what I'm saying is that if you had the dog before you got married, then as far as I'm concerned that dog is family. Since your new H can't transfer his job, and his place is not dog friendly, why is it not an option to look for dog friendly housing near his job. And why was this not discussed prior to the wedding? This would be a BIG issue for me and would be resolved WITHOUT me getting rid of my dog before I got married.

[wrathofkuus]

What in the... WHY do you think your husband would need to change jobs in order to get a gaadamn apartment that allows dogs?! What exactly did you think was going to happen when you made the decision, as a dog owner, to move to either of two homes who didn't allow dogs? Did you think the dogs would pound the pavement until they found their own apartments?

[fussbucket]

So your H is unwilling to move to accommodate your dog is what you are saying. I'd be super wary of someone like tha

[Deleted]

Jul 12, 2012 16:05:31 GMT -5 @missyumi said:

He's not because he is unable to and his place in Georgia is not dog friendly. I'm transferring my job.

Yeah, we check cars and vans for illegal doggies and shoot them when they can't produce papers.