I feel like all I do is botch about my XH, but I am livid right now. I just got a call from my accountant- my taxes were rejected because XH also claimed DD. Granted, a final decision on this hasn't been decided yet- but I have primary custody, make 1/6 of what he does, he STILL hasn't given me a dime of child support, and he claims DD's brother every year. I want to get violent I'm so mad! I now have to gather up endless paperwork to prove she resides with me and wait 8-12 weeks for the IRS to process everything before I get my return. Aggghhhhh!!!! I just hate all this. It shouldn't be so nasty and difficult to deal with a person, and this proves that no matter how accommodating and patient I am with him, he's just going to continue to try to make my life as difficult as possible. Ok- vent over.
Emerson Kate, born 38w5d on 4/6/12 at 6:02 p.m., 5 lbs 13 oz and 18 3/4 inches. Lucas Matthew, born 39w5d on 4/11/14 at 8:20 a.m., 7 lbs 4 oz and 20 inches.
Post by thedahliharpa on Apr 18, 2014 9:27:49 GMT -5
Ugh what a fuckface! I can't believe is not paying CS, this is his first rodeo...doesn't he know he can't get out of it? (He can't get our of it right??)
Ugh what a fuckface! I can't believe is not paying CS, this is his first rodeo...doesn't he know he can't get out of it? (He can't get our of it right??)
No he can't get out of it. Not unless we get joint custody, which will never happen. And once the judge finally makes a ruling on it, it's going to be prorated from when he was first served with papers back in August. Soooo that's going to suck for him.
Ugh what a fuckface! I can't believe is not paying CS, this is his first rodeo...doesn't he know he can't get out of it? (He can't get our of it right??)
No he can't get out of it. Not unless we get joint custody, which will never happen. And once the judge finally makes a ruling on it, it's going to be prorated from when he was first served with papers back in August. Soooo that's going to suck for him.
Ugh that's awul my husband is a CPA and told me a while ago about how many jerky guys do this. I don't understand why because it's not like they are getting away with it and they end up paying more!?
I'm so sorry he's being a jerk. He sounds like a selfish bastard. How long until the judge makes a ruling?
In the NY court system?? Another year or so until it's all done and buttoned up. NYC courts are a nightmare. I mean, beyond anything you could ever imagine. And of course it's attorneys are the most expensive.
I'm so sorry he's being a jerk. He sounds like a selfish bastard. How long until the judge makes a ruling?
In the NY court system?? Another year or so until it's all done and buttoned up. NYC courts are a nightmare. I mean, beyond anything you could ever imagine. And of course it's attorneys are the most expensive.
Damn that sucks. I got divorced in Cali many years ago (but without kids in the mix), and even that took a long time. I'm really sorry you're going through this.