I am thankful for boyfriend. He works so hard and still takes good care of me. Last night we put new sheets on the bed and I decided after 15 minutes they were scratchy and horrible and I was getting sheet splinters so he got out of bed and helped me change the sheets again.
I will be working all weekend except Saturday evening when I'll be playing CAH and drinking with my favorite friends.
starrieskies, birthdays can be happy days even if it is rainy.
I know, I just really wanted to do something special for DS this year. I'll probably take him to the children's museum instead and plan the zoo for another day.
Post by starrieskies on May 2, 2014 10:37:54 GMT -5
Also, doglove, I've been thinking about you! I'm glad that you guys are having these hard conversations. This can only mean good things for you later on, no matter what you two decide.
starrieskies, birthdays can be happy days even if it is rainy.
I know, I just really wanted to do something special for DS this year. I'll probably take him to the children's museum instead and plan the zoo for another day.Â
See? This gives you time to plan to bring him to the zoo by me instead!
I know, I just really wanted to do something special for DS this year. I'll probably take him to the children's museum instead and plan the zoo for another day.
See? This gives you time to plan to bring him to the zoo by me instead!
Post by starrieskies on May 2, 2014 13:26:34 GMT -5
I GOT MY FINAL PAPERWORK FROM MY LAWYER!!! Yes, that requires yelling.
OMG you guys! I'm really almost done!!! Do you think it would be in poor taste to ask him to sign them at dinner on Sunday? LOL (I wouldn't really do that, but I want to)
I GOT MY FINAL PAPERWORK FROM MY LAWYER!!! Yes, that requires yelling.
OMG you guys! I'm really almost done!!! Do you think it would be in poor taste to ask him to sign them at dinner on Sunday? LOL (I wouldn't really do that, but I want to)
Post by starrieskies on May 2, 2014 15:48:36 GMT -5
Lunch date ran a little late. It was nice! I was so nervous, and honestly thought he was out of my league... But he was really easy to talk to! No kiss though, so that part remains to be seen.
Lunch date ran a little late. It was nice! I was so nervous, and honestly thought he was out of my league... But he was really easy to talk to! No kiss though, so that part remains to be seen.
Lunch date ran a little late. It was nice! I was so nervous, and honestly thought he was out of my league... But he was really easy to talk to! No kiss though, so that part remains to be seen.
Post by starrieskies on May 2, 2014 16:37:06 GMT -5
During therapy a little while ago, I came to the uncomfortable realization that my entire life, I have always dated someone who needed fixing. There was always something, and I made fixing their lives kind of my job. It made me feel useful, like I had a purpose in their lives. This is highly unhealthy and led to me putting myself last in almost every single relationship I've ever had because I wanted to help them. This is the first time I've gone out on a date with someone who truly seems to have their shit together... It was refreshing!
During therapy a little while ago, I came to the uncomfortable realization that my entire life, I have always dated someone who needed fixing. There was always something, and I made fixing their lives kind of my job. It made me feel useful, like I had a purpose in their lives. This is highly unhealthy and led to me putting myself last in almost every single relationship I've ever had because I wanted to help them. This is the first time I've gone out on a date with someone who truly seems to have their shit together... It was refreshing!
::hugs:: you are amazing. If anything you are too good for them.