Oh my god, GOAB, I'm so incredibly sorry. How devastating. please let us know if you need anything. I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry. I lost my baby brother unexpectedly about a year and a half ag. He was 19. I know you know others better, but feel free to pm me if you want or need. I'm so, so sorry.
I keep coming back to this post. GAOB please feel free to reach out. I know that my first encounter with anxiety was a night my baby brother called me crying. I could almost hear my heart break that night and I never really recovered. So, I cannot even imagine the pain you and your family is going through. In a way I am relieved my mom left first. I don't know I could bear this pain.
Many hugs. I am not trying to be a Debbie downer. Just letting you know I'm sympathetic to your pain.