Post by Saint Monica on Jun 30, 2014 6:32:12 GMT -5
Uh. Add your so I don't feel alone.
Since I have identified that I have trouble having healthy relationships with men/cannot make good decisions about who 'good guys' are I have been just focusing on myself and have been alone.
I am wicked lonely. Yo. I do not like it. I am still going to be alone for longer b/c I know I cannot yet trust myself to make good decisions and it sucks so hard.
That is not flameful at all! I know how you feel about being lonely, and I am married and lonely. Just getting the nerve to get up and go is the worst.
Post by nightandday on Jun 30, 2014 6:53:45 GMT -5
I am not FB friends with my new principal, but some of my co-workers are. I saw a pic posted of my boss getting engaged. I didn't know that they were close enough to witness her engagement at a family BBQ. This bothers me, not because I wish I was there, but because I feel like they're going to bad mouth the rest of the staff. It makes me want to distance myself from them.
I'm about to get fired from my part-time job. They've been dangling a full time position over my head for months to get me to take calls/emails at all hours of the day. So basically I had to stay home all day to be able to respond to emails, and could then only charge for 15 minutes. I finally started saying I wasn't available and now my role is posted on Craigslist- with the same bullshit promise of full time "in a few months".
I think I'm going to pull a @booby and return a Lands End bathing suit I bought for the honeymoon. The underwrite is really uncomfortable and doesn't lay right after moving around.
The most flameful part is that I'm wearing it one more time, because it covers my cleavage more than my other two and we have a pool party to go to with J's super conservative extended family.
Post by ProfessorArtNerd on Jun 30, 2014 7:25:31 GMT -5
I'm probably overstating how bad the dust DH will kick up while sanding our floors will bother me. I miiiiiight be coughing a little extra while I'm cleaning, "oh, the cleaner chemicals. Oh, the dust". Whatever, I've been working on the house with my mom for a week and I'm kind of done. Ha
Post by rupertpenny on Jun 30, 2014 7:26:55 GMT -5
I got a bikini wax for the first time ever today. God was that a humiliating experience. I spent the whole time wondering why the hell I was paying someone to pour hot wax on my genitals in order to conform to some weird arbitrary beauty ideal. AND it didn't even work perfectly, it didn't get 100% of the hair.
I still scheduled another appointment though. I know this isn't really flameful, but I feel like I messed up somewhere here haha.
I'm about to get fired from my part-time job. They've been dangling a full time position over my head for months to get me to take calls/emails at all hours of the day. So basically I had to stay home all day to be able to respond to emails, and could then only charge for 15 minutes. I finally started saying I wasn't available and now my role is posted on Craigslist- with the same bullshit promise of full time "in a few months".
I'm sorry. I got fired last week from a job full of empty promises. It's better than being in limbo
There is a newer, younger gal at work is just worshiped by our (all male) management team. She is likable, funny, plays large scale practical jokes quite often (but just on the bosses and they return the jokes), and now has started to surpass other employees on task force committees of which she is not qualified.
My flameful is that I can't decipher if I am jealous or rightly annoyed because I work my ass off and she seemingly gets things handed to her.
I'm really starting to dislike summer. I guess I'm becoming a grumpy old lady because I'm tired of the humidity, getting into a hot car after work, the bugs, the electric bill...I just want to fast forward to September.
Plus, fuck the 4th of July. I'll be spending most of my night making sure my dogs don't shit themselves from the fireworks. Although, I do hope my neighbor sets his lawn on fire again. That was really funny last year.
We did this on NYE. Lucy this this is part of the celebration, lol. Maybe this is flameful
Post by spitforspat on Jun 30, 2014 7:40:59 GMT -5
I hate when people complain about fireworks. I'm sorry. But, get over it. Do you think you/your dog/your baby have never inconvenienced/annoyed me? You are wrong.
I hate when people complain about fireworks. I'm sorry. But, get over it. Do you think you/your dog/your baby have never inconvenienced/annoyed me? You are wrong.
You know what stinks? I love fireworks and Eleanor is absolutely terrified of them unless they're miles away or on tv.
Unless someone is watching her I don't get to see them.
Maybe this is more random than flameful. A random flameful.
We were out in the sun quite a bit yesterday and I got a little sunburn. I am bad with sunscreen stupid, whatever. With my kids, though, I am vigilant. I thought I had them covered. Took breaks in the shade and inside, etc. Reapplied sunscreen throughout the time we were in the sun. Clare still got a little pink on her forearms. I feel so terrible about it.
I hate when people complain about fireworks. I'm sorry. But, get over it. Do you think you/your dog/your baby have never inconvenienced/annoyed me? You are wrong.
I hate fireworks. Hate. They are loud and obnoxious. I hated them pre-kids, too.
I hate when people complain about fireworks. I'm sorry. But, get over it. Do you think you/your dog/your baby have never inconvenienced/annoyed me? You are wrong.
I hate fireworks. Hate. They are loud and obnoxious. I hated them pre-kids, too.
Ok. I hate onions. Are you going to stop eating them?
I think this is whatever the opposite of flameful is. I think you should be proud of yourself for several reasons: first, that you recognized an issue, second, that you're putting real effort into resolving it; and third, that you doing that even though it's uncomfortable; fourth, that you posted here to share, which also cannot have been easy. You rock, and should be proud of yourself, even if it feels sucky right this moment.
I refuse to take my kid to the park by myself because people let their dogs off leash.
I glared at people at the park a few days ago who let their dogs off leash. It it NOT an off leash park, there are no fences, I have anxiety around strange dogs, and dogs wonder around the playground where my 17 month old plays. I understand dogs can become family and be amazingly behaved around you and your kids, but they do not know my kid and I do not know your dog. So use the leash that is in your hand.
I like fireworks on the 4th. I hate the 2 week stretch surrounding the 4th when neighbors randomly set them off creating a stretch of possible baby waking and dog freak outage. And then again mid-late August when they find some they forgot to set off.
I think I'm going to pull a @booby and return a Lands End bathing suit I bought for the honeymoon. The underwrite is really uncomfortable and doesn't lay right after moving around.
The most flameful part is that I'm wearing it one more time, because it covers my cleavage more than my other two and we have a pool party to go to with J's super conservative extended family.
People can guffaw, but LE welcomes their worn clothing back, in the event you are not satisfied.
What's really funny is that people don't take advantage of that policy and acting all high and mighty about it.
Im about to exchange a dress that I originally liked but have decided it is too short for work now. I have worn it 4 times.
I got on the phone with LE and explained all of that. They said to exchange it for the same dress in a tall.
Really. I love this company and by doing that for me they pretty much ensured that I will continue to purchase clothing from them for my entire family for the rest of my life.
I refuse to take my kid to the park by myself because people let their dogs off leash.
I glared at people at the park a few days ago who let their dogs off leash. It it NOT an off leash park, there are no fences, I have anxiety around strange dogs, and dogs wonder around the playground where my 17 month old plays. I understand dogs can become family and be amazingly behaved around you and your kids, but they do not know my kid and I do not know your dog. So use the leash that is in your hand.
This isn't flameful. They should have them on a leash. Unless you were at a dog park. Lol
I got a bikini wax for the first time ever today. God was that a humiliating experience. I spent the whole time wondering why the hell I was paying someone to pour hot wax on my genitals in order to conform to some weird arbitrary beauty ideal. AND it didn't even work perfectly, it didn't get 100% of the hair.
I still scheduled another appointment though. I know this isn't really flameful, but I feel like I messed up somewhere here haha.
I refuse to take my kid to the park by myself because people let their dogs off leash.
I glared at people at the park a few days ago who let their dogs off leash. It it NOT an off leash park, there are no fences, I have anxiety around strange dogs, and dogs wonder around the playground where my 17 month old plays. I understand dogs can become family and be amazingly behaved around you and your kids, but they do not know my kid and I do not know your dog. So use the leash that is in your hand.
This isn't flameful. They should have them on a leash. Unless you were at a dog park. Lol
Nope, not a dog park. We ARE seriously lacking in the dog park department in this city, and I would support them putting up a fence in this park and making part of it a small dog park, but right now, nope.
I hate when people complain about fireworks. I'm sorry. But, get over it. Do you think you/your dog/your baby have never inconvenienced/annoyed me? You are wrong.
I hate fireworks. Hate. They are loud and obnoxious. I hated them pre-kids, too.
Yeah, my kids don't seem bothered and my dogs don't freak out, I just think they are trashy as hell. They're illegal here, so maybe the idea of going to the bordering state to buy them and bring them here makes it extra trashy for me I don't know.
But it has nothing to do with inconveniencing my kids or dogs lol.