JLV - I never realized until now just how much you look alike. I think this is why N is so cute. Babies whose parents look similar tend to be good looking kids.
I can't express how much those harnesses sucked. Oh my lord they were murder on the boobs. I vastly preferred the versions with the built-in life vest. They were more cushy.
There are no pics but terrible pics of DH on this computer - one of our own sailing trips last summer:
I can imagine that the harness would suck for those with boobs! Never thought about that before. I only spent one night on the ship and we were in port in Senegal so no harness for me!