Hardest time as a parent: 15-20 months, peaked at 18 months. OMG the hitting, biting, throwing. And he was a ninja about it. We'd be playing on the floor and he'd lean in and make the "mwah" kiss noise, and when I leaned in to accept the kiss he'd bite me instead. I'd be making dinner and he'd walk up and bite my leg. Hence starting timeouts at 15 months.
Hardest time for sleep deprivation: 8-12 months. He was getting his canines then first year molars, and would.not.sleep. I was up all night long, often 5+ times a night, for months and months on end. It was brutal.
Definitely the newborn period--the first three months. E was a decent sleeper and wasn't colicky, but he was somewhat high maintenance and a lot of the time would only nap in the car (so I *really* couldn't take advantage of downtime for myself, because I'd be driving). Things started getting manageable about the same time I returned to work.
Post by littlemisschatty on Jul 15, 2014 19:09:41 GMT -5
Hardest overall (sleep and otherwise) were months 7-10. In so many ways, this was the hardest and darkest part of my life as a new mom. Months 10-11 are so far much better.
Post by dcrunnergirl52 on Jul 15, 2014 19:15:38 GMT -5
Hardest overall and for sleep deprivation was months 4-6 with DD and DS1. We were past the high of having new babies and just running on fumes. Plus, my PPD really kicked into high gear.
There hasn't been really any hard times since we've had DS2. It's been pretty easy having a third...after having twins, having just one baby is like a vacation.