I used to like foreplay a lot more. Now I feel like, ok, it's a given that this is going to end in sex, so let's get this show on the road. I do really enjoy sex, but I'd say 15 minutes including foreplay is good. I also really enjoy eating ice cream but I don't think I could do it for hours on end. Well, maybe I could. It depends on the flavor. I'm getting off track here.
DH has it in his head that ppl (married ppl) make love for hours on end, while passionately making out and whispering sweet nothings....I always say it's not true, it's a myth but he thinks we are the odd couple not sharing in this glorious idealistic sexlife.
Depends. Sometimes I'm cool with 30. But if it's on a weekend during what I call nap time, and he calls "nap" time, <5min. I want to ACTUALLY sleep, dammit.
Now do you guys climax everytime, or am I the only person who is just past that.
Whaaaaaat. I can't even wrap my mind around being "past that." I can't think of a single reason to have sex if I'm not making a baby or having an orgasm.
Not to get too graphic, but do you guys use your hands? I can't climax from intercourse without my own...participation. But then it works pretty much every time.
Not to get too graphic, but do you guys use your hands? I can't climax from intercourse without my own...participation. But then it works pretty much every time.
I feel like I'm too lazy for that shit. I just get oral instead.
Not to get too graphic, but do you guys use your hands? I can't climax from intercourse without my own...participation. But then it works pretty much every time.
I feel like I'm too lazy for that shit. I just get oral instead.Â
For me the orgasm is better if the penis is involved. It just can't be ONLY the penis. I do love oral, but I prefer to hop on board at the last minute to finish.
So much for not getting graphic. Sorry people! But this is a serious issue.
Now do you guys climax everytime, or am I the only person who is just past that.
Never from intercourse. I would like to learn how to.
See, I'm an ONLY from intercourse type. The rest of it's nice and all, but it doesn't do much for me. I suspect this is a FFTC, because based on what I read here and hear from friends IRL, this is not "normal".
Never from intercourse. I would like to learn how to.
See, I'm an ONLY from intercourse type. The rest of it's nice and all, but it doesn't do much for me. I suspect this is a FFTC, because based on what I read here and hear from friends IRL, this is not "normal".
This (you're not alone). I hate either the giving or receiving end of oral and am not huge into foreplay since it's not a surprise...I know where it's going. I liked the anticipation of foreplay while dating when there was still some tension and question about where it would end, and didn't mind dragging it out longer as well. But now 15 minutes total, 10 of those having sex is just about right.
I used to like foreplay a lot more. Now I feel like, ok, it's a given that this is going to end in sex, so let's get this show on the road. I do really enjoy sex, but I'd say 15 minutes including foreplay is good. I also really enjoy eating ice cream but I don't think I could do it for hours on end. Well, maybe I could. It depends on the flavor. I'm getting off track here.
Post by JuliaGulia on Jul 31, 2014 11:41:13 GMT -5
Foreplay and sex should not take longer than 20 minutes. I get annoyed if sex last more than 10 minutes it ruins it! Or I should say I ruin it by asking him why it is taking so long...
I also don't orgasm from sex alone. I can if I use my hands. Often I prefer to have oral though, that always works.
except the last time we had sex. I just wasn't feeling it. Breastfeeding is not helping me in the sexy department despite giving me enormous sex boobs
yes, husband it is a cruel cruel joke that mother nature would give your wife enormous sex boobs which are too sore to be touched and make her never want to have sex to begin with
Now do you guys climax everytime, or am I the only person who is just past that.
Whaaaaaat. I can't even wrap my mind around being "past that." I can't think of a single reason to have sex if I'm not making a baby or having an orgasm.
Never from intercourse. I would like to learn how to.
See, I'm an ONLY from intercourse type. The rest of it's nice and all, but it doesn't do much for me. I suspect this is a FFTC, because based on what I read here and hear from friends IRL, this is not "normal".
I'm kinda like this too. While I can achieve it both ways, I MUCH prefer intercourse orgasms.
I like sex to last long enough for me to have an orgasm. Which usually happens before intercourse. I enjoy intercourse for about 10 minutes and then I am just waiting for H to finish.
I prefer heavy foreplay and about 10 minutes of actual sex.
This is what I was going to say.
ETA: I hit post too quickly. I usually finish up during foreplay, but I do love sex, too. However, after 10 minutes or so, I start to think about my to do list.