Post by pinkdutchtulips on Aug 5, 2014 11:39:27 GMT -5
I have a DVRO against by stbxh who is a meth addict.
2 frantic text messages this morning .. the reason - he's afraid for my safety - again ! telling me that I shouldn't be letting people in that I don't know (duh).
the best part - he adamants believes that there are all of these pictures of me as a kid at this lady's house - photos of me in clothes I've never worn w/ my cousins (most of whom he's never met so why he thinks that is beyond me). I told him that I never owned the clothes in the pictures and when I was 6, I was living in Detroit NOT LA. didn't sink in ... did not compute. he was all convinced that it was ME in those pictures - smh. I know its not me, he can't be convinced otherwise.
I told him I had to go and now if he calls/texts - I'm ignoring it. he's on the crazy stuff ...
This reminds me of some of the delusions my H had when he was drinking heavily. Nothing I said would dissuade him. I'm sorry you're having to deal with it, and I think ignoring it is the best thing to do.
Post by pinkdutchtulips on Aug 5, 2014 12:00:34 GMT -5
ignoring him is part of MY recovery. for years, anytime he called, I'd jump - bc it had.to.be.answered.right.this.MINUTE or there would be hell to pay.
so nice to be able to see that it's him and ignore it and not worry about any 'consequences' ....