Post by dixienormous on Aug 21, 2014 8:20:34 GMT -5
I had forgotten how exhausting working can be. I like it, I like being useful, I do not like being exhausted.
Also we have several cicada killer wasps living out in front of our apartment. They're huge and scary and burrow in everything from dirt to brick. Our super has been really responsive when I've spoken to him about getting rid of them. The building management on the other hand has tried to pull "exterminators come once a month. Wait until then" bullshit. The super is going to talk to them again and if that doesn't work I will call them and let them know it's a major safety hazard (even though they're non-aggressive, they will still attack if they think they're in danger) for my allergic husband and my already disabled child. I will so pull all the cards.
Post by partiallysunny on Aug 21, 2014 8:39:15 GMT -5
Kid went to bed early last night. Because he wouldn't pick up his toys. I left them there for him to pick up when he wakes up this morning.
This power struggle thing he has going on is exhausting. Every night it's a battle. Usually about his toys. Or being nice to the cats. Or not listening.
I had forgotten how exhausting working can be. I like it, I like being useful, I do not like being exhausted.
Also we have several cicada killer wasps living out in front of our apartment. They're huge and scary and burrow in everything from dirt to brick. Our super has been really responsive when I've spoken to him about getting rid of them. The building management on the other hand has tried to pull "exterminators come once a month. Wait until then" bullshit. The super is going to talk to them again and if that doesn't work I will call them and let them know it's a major safety hazard (even though they're non-aggressive, they will still attack if they think they're in danger) for my allergic husband and my already disabled child. I will so pull all the cards.
They should not wait a month! The longer they wait, the bigger the nest will be.
We had a small nest last month. We caught it early, so they were easy to get rid of. They are fucking scary looking though. But, like you said, relatively harmless. Unless you're a cicada.
Oh! I have a random. Anyone remember the psychiatrist i briefly dated back in February? Well I saw him Friday when I was at a local wine bar. Then when I renewed my match subscription this week I saw I had a message from him. So we ended up sending a few messages back and forth, just catching up. Then comes his message asking if it would be wrong for him to ask me for a casual hookup. LOL
There was someone banging on my door at 2am. I woke up so freaked out...and then realized that it was followed by thunder. The lightning was so fucking loud. No wonder I'm tired this morning.
Oh! I have a random. Anyone remember the psychiatrist i briefly dated back in February? Well I saw him Friday when I was at a local wine bar. Then when I renewed my match subscription this week I saw I had a message from him. So we ended up sending a few messages back and forth, just catching up. Then comes his message asking if it would be wrong for him to ask me for a casual hookup. LOL
doriswe I told him I wasn't sure i had an answer yet, but I'd let him know if I wanted to take him up on it and he could let me know if the offer was still on the table.
Because in the moment I was insulted that he only thinks I'm "good enough" for a random hookup, but I don't want to close any doors in case I do want some random sex from someone who's not crazy.
doriswe I told him I wasn't sure i had an answer yet, but I'd let him know if I wanted to take him up on it and he could let me know if the offer was still on the table.
Because in the moment I was insulted that he only thinks I'm "good enough" for a random hookup, but I don't want to close any doors in case I do want some random sex from someone who's not crazy.
I'm torn on this. I mean, I don't think I'd go assuming that he thinks you're only good enough for a casual hookup... but I also don't know why he wouldn't just ask you out. Didn't you guys go on a few dates already?
doriswe I told him I wasn't sure i had an answer yet, but I'd let him know if I wanted to take him up on it and he could let me know if the offer was still on the table.
Because in the moment I was insulted that he only thinks I'm "good enough" for a random hookup, but I don't want to close any doors in case I do want some random sex from someone who's not crazy.
I'm torn on this. I mean, I don't think I'd go assuming that he thinks you're only good enough for a casual hookup... but I also don't know why he wouldn't just ask you out. Didn't you guys go on a few dates already?
I don't know the back story....tell me more, please and thank you!
I'm torn on this. I mean, I don't think I'd go assuming that he thinks you're only good enough for a casual hookup... but I also don't know why he wouldn't just ask you out. Didn't you guys go on a few dates already?
I don't know the back story....tell me more, please and thank you!
We went on a few dates back in February. He texted me telling me he reconnected with an ex and was going to give it another try. I honestly wasn't super into him anyway, so it didn't much bother me. I was going on dates with like 4 other guys or something ridiculous at the time. I did really like the *idea* of him, and the fact that I went from loser unable to contribute financially stbx to someone with a medical degree who had been in the peace corps and cared about giving back. But on dates with him I felt like we looked like members of the aryan nation because we're both so damn pale.
I think I feel the same as partiallysunny. Why not just ask me on a date? Weirdo. I really don't think I'll take him up on it, I have a very nice vibrator.
doriswe I told him I wasn't sure i had an answer yet, but I'd let him know if I wanted to take him up on it and he could let me know if the offer was still on the table.
Because in the moment I was insulted that he only thinks I'm "good enough" for a random hookup, but I don't want to close any doors in case I do want some random sex from someone who's not crazy.
I can see your rationale here, but I don't think it's a good idea. I would be too insulted to even reconsider it.
doriswe I told him I wasn't sure i had an answer yet, but I'd let him know if I wanted to take him up on it and he could let me know if the offer was still on the table.
Because in the moment I was insulted that he only thinks I'm "good enough" for a random hookup, but I don't want to close any doors in case I do want some random sex from someone who's not crazy.
oh, fuck that shit.
WHY would you even want to have sex with someone like that?
doriswe I told him I wasn't sure i had an answer yet, but I'd let him know if I wanted to take him up on it and he could let me know if the offer was still on the table.
Because in the moment I was insulted that he only thinks I'm "good enough" for a random hookup, but I don't want to close any doors in case I do want some random sex from someone who's not crazy.
oh, fuck that shit.
WHY would you even want to have sex with someone like that?
Post by partiallysunny on Aug 21, 2014 10:11:42 GMT -5
Doesn't seem like there was any connection or spark anyway tiramisu. If you're going to have a casual fling, make it with someone you're hot and heavy for. Not that guy.