Post by wampuscat on Sept 11, 2014 14:05:09 GMT -5
I'm sorry, sweetie Ditto what seabitch said. I really admire you for seeing this and not just ignoring the signs. That doesn't make it any easier though. ((hugs))
Post by kitkat1502 on Sept 11, 2014 14:11:03 GMT -5
I'm sorry. Sucky feeling but good that you picked up on it. You definitely deserve someone that doesn't still have emotional hangups about their previous relationship.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Post by WinterIsComing on Sept 11, 2014 14:21:55 GMT -5
Sorry mp . You deserve someone who can be fully invested in you, not grieving his previous relationship. I think it is amazing though that you are able to make the best decision for yourself even though it hard and hurt. ((hugs))
I'm sorry. As the great Dumbledore said. "There comes a time when we have to choose between doing what is right and what is easy". He was talking about waging a war against evil, but I think it applies here too
It sucks, but you'll come out better for it. You got my number if you need a wine and whine session.
I feel like as we get older, this will be a more common thing. I mean, makes sense since people are more apt to be coming out of more serious relationships the older they are. But it sucks.
Post by pantsoffdanceoff on Sept 11, 2014 14:41:16 GMT -5
Hugs! I'm very impressed with your ability to see the situation for what it was (not what you hoped it would be) and make the best decision for yourself!
I'm sorry. ((mp)). It stinks because he seemed like a cool guy, BUT I'm glad you had the strength to tell him like it is and be honest. It does take time to "grieve" some break ups. I think many of us have thought we were "ready" and then realized that we weren't once we were out there. I'm just sorry you were on the other end of his not being ready. You never know though, he may just pop back up after some time has gone by. If it's meant for you to see him again, it will happen.