Hmm, I don't think XH was that great of a kisser. We rarely kissed for more than a peck or whatever. But the sex was good and since we basically always had sex vs. just making out, it didn't really matter.
I am far more likely to just make out with my BF, who is a good kisser, and I do think it's nicer to have that option But probably wouldn't be a dealbreaker again either.
Like, if he went in with teeth/trying to eat my face every time we kissed? Nope.
But if he just wasn't very good at heavy kissing/making out, ehhh, that's not something that really happens very often once you're married/been together a while. As long as he's good at the sex, I could overlook him being a bad frencher.
Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Sept 17, 2014 12:27:17 GMT -5
Is give him some hints and tips, but if he was still insistent on licking my face or coming at me with fish lips, I can't stick it out. Life is too short for bad kissers.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Like, if he went in with teeth/trying to eat my face every time we kissed? Nope.
But if he just wasn't very good at heavy kissing/making out, ehhh, that's not something that really happens very often once you're married/been together a while. As long as he's good at the sex, I could overlook him being a bad frencher.
Really? I've always loved making out and have done it with all 3 of my long term relationships. I love kissing!
I don't think so... I am pretty sure I have never gone on more than one date with a bad kisser, so there is that!!
I LOVE making out. It is so much fun! I need some good kisses.
I'm here - even when you have been together for a long time, a good make out session can still be fun! I don't think a bad kisser would make it past a few dates.
Like, if he went in with teeth/trying to eat my face every time we kissed? Nope.
But if he just wasn't very good at heavy kissing/making out, ehhh, that's not something that really happens very often once you're married/been together a while. As long as he's good at the sex, I could overlook him being a bad frencher.
Really? I've always loved making out and have done it with all 3 of my long term relationships. I love kissing!
Truth! I especially love a tipsy make out session.
Post by Wanderista on Sept 17, 2014 13:34:05 GMT -5
No, I could not seriously be with someone who I do not think is a good kisser. I think kissing says a lot about chemistry and it is definitely important to me. I love to kiss and make out. Different people are into different styles of kissing but I need for it to "click". I do have that with the BF. I wasn't sure how it was going to go with him because we did not kiss until a few dates in and he has not had a lot of sexual experience. He was not a virgin but I am definitely the more experienced one. He's good though and it's very natural.
I'm willing to work with someone while we learn each others' bodies but the kissing needs to make me want more for me to keep going there.
Like, if he went in with teeth/trying to eat my face every time we kissed? Nope.
But if he just wasn't very good at heavy kissing/making out, ehhh, that's not something that really happens very often once you're married/been together a while. As long as he's good at the sex, I could overlook him being a bad frencher.
Really? I've always loved making out and have done it with all 3 of my long term relationships. I love kissing!
Post by kitkat1502 on Sept 17, 2014 13:55:57 GMT -5
No because I think a bad kisser for me would kill the chemistry and the attraction. If we'd be fooling around I'd be like "ughhhhh here we go again with the kissing." So I'd find it hard to want that person.
I did date a bad kisser. I tried to teach him to be more sensual but he couldn't get out of his lizard ways with the darting tongue. I couldn't do it again.
Post by stephreloaded on Sept 17, 2014 15:16:42 GMT -5
Ehh I don't know. I guess it depends on how bad it is. The ex was a bad kisser when we started and he started getting better with time. He was never good though, he was just boring and I was still going to marry him.
Post by lexxasaurus on Sept 17, 2014 16:10:04 GMT -5
My partner doesn't have to be the best kisser ever, but they have to be good and I need to enjoy it. I love making out. I'd be sad if that wasn't a good part of our relationship.
Post by jojoandleo on Sept 17, 2014 16:20:07 GMT -5
Nope. And who are these "you stop kissing when married" people? I still kiss H! Often! I love kissing! And there is nothing worse than doing it and some guy going in to kiss you and totally spoiling the mood.
Back in the day, I may have had the patience to teach, but at 30? No. Sorry. This may be mean, or make me a bitch, but I just don't want to teach some one to kiss. I want the sexual attraction there with the first kiss!