I'm about to sack punch H so I'm going to vent so that doesn't happen. Kids seeing daddy on the floor crying is probably not a good developmental thing
Vent: H bought a commuter car this weekend. H bought a commuter car this weekend without doing his normal OCD research every single little detail beforehand bit. Now I am having to do all this calling and leg work to get things done and set up so that we can get it licensed and stickered to get on base. The car didn't have to have emissions where it was registered before but it does where we live and it failed. So I am having to do all that I can to get the issue fixed or get everything together so H can fix it in the short time he has when he gets home from work. I want to sack punch him so hard for all this and because he is complaining about it being a pile when he is the one that went through it all and bought it!
Confession: I have a headache and justified eating the last chocolate chip cookie dough cheesecake bar. Now I am making dinner and no longer hungry.
Judgment: a set of friends getting divorced and the mom attempting to make the dad look like a bad guy in the eyes of the kids even though she's turning out to be the crazy one that we had no idea about.
It's 3am and I can't sleep. About 30 minutes ago my purse fell over and woke everyone up, for some reason that totally wound me up and now I'm wide awake. AURG. I just want to sleeeeeeeeep.
Post by karebear219 on Oct 14, 2014 21:36:16 GMT -5
Confession: I'm stuffing my face with chocolate. At first I said I would only eat a quarter bar. Now I'm eating half. That's what I get for avoiding drinking.
Vent: my H is being a huge ass face bc the orioles are losing again and he's in such a foul mood and has been snapping at me and Blb. I already put her to bed and she went down peacefully and then I guess he decided he wanted a chance to say good night so he went in there (with the game blaring on his phone) to give her a hug even though she was already down. So then of course she woke up and screamed for a few minutes before settling down. He seriously has no coping strategies in life for anything negative, whether it's a fucking sports game or a rough time at work. I'm really done with his negative attitude all the time.
I judged a mom hard and gave her the stink eye. I usually try not to judge parents because everyone is doing their best but this mom? Uhg. We were having breakfast after babylefty's appointment and we were sat near the door. Suddenly this kid, 2 maybe three, comes walking down the restaurant from somewhere towards the back. He was alone and tried to go out the door so I got up and redirected him. He played around the other tables for awhile and then tried to go out the door again so I took his hand and said let's go find your mommy. She was at the back talking to a friend so I said he'd tried to get out the door, laughed about it, handed him off. By the time I got back to my seat he was standing on a table drinking out of the glasses left on the table. Gross. The mom walked right by him to go to the bathroom. Definitely saw him and kept going. Some other patron took him down. He again went for the door and made it all the way outside before I got him, took him back to his mom and said "he went all the way outside this time. Pay attention to your kid." She said "I'm trying to have lunch with a friend" in this annoyed voice like i was bothering her. Luckily they had already paid and just left.
The waiter said they come in once a week and she's the same every time. He told us the kid has made it out to the street a few times. Wtf.
Vent: UGH. Sometimes I feel like things with H are so one sided. I support him with TONS of stuff and I feel like this current issue we're having he's completely not looking at it from my perspective and is brushing my feelings off. I have this weird feeling about someone he recently reconnected with and I have voiced my concerns about it and all he says was "I probably will never talk to/see them again so it doesn't matter." Clearly it matters to me that he knows how I feel about it.
Confession: I swear traffic is getting worse and I'm getting more and more ragey over it. Carpooling helps, but then we get ragey together. HA. I need to calm down.
Vent: I can't talk to H about our problems or things he says/does that bothers me or other people. Example: Hey honey, that joke you told made X&Y really uncomfortable. H: Fine I just won't talk anymore. It bother's me that H always wants a commuter car, bike, motorcycle. He's had all 3 this year. In his mind he saves money on gas. The motorcycle insurance was $100 a month (he didn't shop around or tell me until the charge hit the bank account). The bike he bought a month ago, and hasn't ridden was $650. It would be cheaper to just gas up his stupid truck and drive it.
Vent: UGH. Sometimes I feel like things with H are so one sided. I support him with TONS of stuff and I feel like this current issue we're having he's completely not looking at it from my perspective and is brushing my feelings off. I have this weird feeling about someone he recently reconnected with and I have voiced my concerns about it and all he says was "I probably will never talk to/see them again so it doesn't matter." Clearly it matters to me that he knows how I feel about it.
Confession: I swear traffic is getting worse and I'm getting more and more ragey over it. Carpooling helps, but then we get ragey together. HA. I need to calm down.
I feel like being ragey with someone else cuts the tension. I mean you both yell, but then look at one another and bust up laughing.
Dudes, today was not my day. Found out my wedding ring is lost, allergies are slowly killing me, burned my arm on the oven while making dinner, and I have a reading headache.
I'm taking 2 nyquill and going to bed and trying this thing called life again tomorrow.
You guys all know this last year or so has been stressful and I just hate how much I feel like it has affected me. I have gained so much weight and struggling to fix it. I keep trying to get back in a workout routine and am having so much trouble. Between school, work, and pain I sit on my butt ALL THE TIME. i am giving myself 2 more weeks to get a handle on it and then I am going back to my PCP. I am stuck in this cycle where I am tired because I am not working our and am not working out because I am tired.
Ugh. I just want to feel like myself again. There are tumors and nerve damage, but not much will fix my pain level, I just need to learn to manage it.
This brought to you by the fact that I can't watch someone being taken off life support on TV/in movies without losing it. How the heck am I going to a nurse if I can't do that.
I'm so sorry Volare. I just want to give you a hug.
Thank you, I really appreciate it. I know I am lucky and am grateful for our life, but I am just feeling so stressed lately.
I almost started crying taking my cat into the vet today. I mean, I am worried something is wrong but I used to be able to hold it together a little better than that.
I'm so sorry Volare. I just want to give you a hug.
Thank you, I really appreciate it. I know I am lucky and am grateful for our life, but I am just feeling so stressed lately.
I almost started crying taking my cat into the vet today. I mean, I am worried something is wrong but I used to be able to hold it together a little better than that.
Everyone goes through periods like that. You're entitled to your feelings and crying Sometimes having a good cry makes me feel better.
Thank you, I really appreciate it. I know I am lucky and am grateful for our life, but I am just feeling so stressed lately.
I almost started crying taking my cat into the vet today. I mean, I am worried something is wrong but I used to be able to hold it together a little better than that.
Everyone goes through periods like that. You're entitled to your feelings and crying Sometimes having a good cry makes me feel better.
It does not help that my period is here every 1.5-2 weeks. Chronic PMS man...
Some of my clients are sofuckingcrazy and I just sometimes stare at them tying to hold the "wtf" out of my voice. I seriously do not understand how people get themselves into the predicaments they do and not have any self awareness about it.
Post by karebear219 on Oct 17, 2014 15:10:27 GMT -5
Vent - I need to vent about comcast. It will be long, sorry.... My cable box kept turning off every 20 minutes. Chatted online with customer service. They did the usual trouble shooting stuff asked me if it was working... well yes comcast guy it's working now but it turns off every twenty minutes. I get it they have to check everying but still. So of course it goes out again 15 minutes later. So I call back again. Have me trouble shoot, well yes it's working comcast guy, but it goes out again every twenty minutes. The third time I call in and was like look, I've called three times, they have all gone through this trouble shooting it still keeps going out every twenty minutes. Finally they say they can send a tech out or I can go to an xfinity store and trade out my box. I'm positive my box is broken so I tell them I will go to the store.
So I go to the store and they ask me what type of box it is. I say it's our DVR box. Then he tells me it's actually my HD box. Okay pretty sure it's my dvr box comcast guy, but whateves. So I come home hook up my box and of course the DVR DOES NOT WORK. I talked to H and we decided after a week we would just cancel our DVR if we don't miss it because I don't want to deal with the hassel of driving to Factoria to change out our box AGAIN. Plus it would save us money not to have to pay for it.
Now I call today to cancel our DVR and find out because we now have an HD box instead of a DVR box we have to pay $10 MORE on our cable bill. Granted I'm saving $10 on canceling DVR so it's a wash but still.
I'm so freaking irritated right now I could scream. I've probably spent at least 8 hours of my life on this stupid problem because our box wouldn't work.
Vent - I need to vent about comcast. It will be long, sorry.... My cable box kept turning off every 20 minutes. Chatted online with customer service. They did the usual trouble shooting stuff asked me if it was working... well yes comcast guy it's working now but it turns off every twenty minutes. I get it they have to check everying but still. So of course it goes out again 15 minutes later. So I call back again. Have me trouble shoot, well yes it's working comcast guy, but it goes out again every twenty minutes. The third time I call in and was like look, I've called three times, they have all gone through this trouble shooting it still keeps going out every twenty minutes. Finally they say they can send a tech out or I can go to an xfinity store and trade out my box. I'm positive my box is broken so I tell them I will go to the store.
So I go to the store and they ask me what type of box it is. I say it's our DVR box. Then he tells me it's actually my HD box. Okay pretty sure it's my dvr box comcast guy, but whateves. So I come home hook up my box and of course the DVR DOES NOT WORK. I talked to H and we decided after a week we would just cancel our DVR if we don't miss it because I don't want to deal with the hassel of driving to Factoria to change out our box AGAIN. Plus it would save us money not to have to pay for it.
Now I call today to cancel our DVR and find out because we now have an HD box instead of a DVR box we have to pay $10 MORE on our cable bill. Granted I'm saving $10 on canceling DVR so it's a wash but still.
I'm so freaking irritated right now I could scream. I've probably spent at least 8 hours of my life on this stupid problem because our box wouldn't work.
Some of my clients are sofuckingcrazy and I just sometimes stare at them tying to hold the "wtf" out of my voice. I seriously do not understand how people get themselves into the predicaments they do and not have any self awareness about it.
Some of my clients are sofuckingcrazy and I just sometimes stare at them tying to hold the "wtf" out of my voice. I seriously do not understand how people get themselves into the predicaments they do and not have any self awareness about it.
You should meet my clients.
I could not do your job. I honesty have to try so hard not so sound like a condescending B sometimes.