Reg going anonymous: Need @ advice

[heyjude]

Jul 31, 2012 13:03:58 GMT -5 emmybean said:

Jul 31, 2012 12:04:46 GMT -5 @littlemoxie said:

I love to hear you say that. Gives me heart. Last night we had to take our dog to the emergency doctor and I freaked out like "how do people do this with KIDS?!"

Fo shizzle.

I feel the same way

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you told me your kid was the best surprise ever and i appreciated that, i must say. and of course you were right.

moxie - its just different with kids! you plan accordingly. andhonestly, i just say fuck it and take ds with me. dont worry pce, never to fancy restaurants where no one wants kids. lol. [/quote]



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None of this is gushing over mah preshus beybez!!!111 like you say it is.

Again one person said "if you are pg it's okay." Some others agreed (including me) and had a side convo.

Maybe the side convo is the crime here? If that's the case this side convo is also guilty.

[emmybean]

Jul 31, 2012 13:24:29 GMT -5 heyjude said:

Jul 31, 2012 13:03:58 GMT -5 emmybean said:

Fo shizzle.

I feel the same way

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you told me your kid was the best surprise ever and i appreciated that, i must say. and of course you were right.

moxie - its just different with kids! you plan accordingly. andhonestly, i just say fuck it and take ds with me. dont worry pce, never to fancy restaurants where no one wants kids. lol. [/quote]



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None of this is gushing over mah preshus beybez!!!111 like you say it is.

Again one person said "if you are pg it's okay." Some others agreed (including me) and had a side convo.

Maybe the side convo is the crime here? If that's the case this side convo is also guilty.[/quote]

No

[secretnestie]

Very sorry for causing a problem! Everyone's comments are welcome.

I still haven't tested. I'm slightly less worried about it now, even though nothing has changed. DH and I aren't getting along as well in the past couple of weeks, so I think a pregnancy would be stressful. I am pretty sure it's just temporary (he says it's because I've been really stressed out), but I don't think we need extra complications as it is.

I'll try to get a test. He will just chalk it up to more stress, which will just make things weirder between us if he knows I'm trying to test.

[heyjude]

Best to you SN. I hope everything turns out okay.

[lyssbobiss, Command, B613]

Get a test. Even if you guys aren't getting along right now, it will be something you won't be wondering about, you know?
Emmybean, I think you were over the line here. I counted three responses that MIGHT have fallen into said category. Little Moxie's doesn't count as far as I'm concerned. It was about her DOGS, ffs.

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Good luck SN. We are here for you. Let us know if you need to talk, whether it be through your regular name or your AE.

No matter the outcome and no matter your decision, it will work out. ::hugs::

[heyjude]

Jul 31, 2012 13:21:51 GMT -5 emmybean said:

Jul 31, 2012 13:16:01 GMT -5 redheadbaker said:

If the OP is offended, I'll apologize, seeing as it's not your thread . . . . But like HeyJude and Laurier, I found those responses helpful when I found out I was PG.

Jesus. I am not calling for an apology or even saying that the op would be offended. I'm just saying that it's pretty premature to be offering such assurance when there is no evidence that there is a pg at all, much less one that will be kept. And that premature assumption runs ME the wrong way because it feels like an excuse to make those in that position feel better about themselves, rather than support the op.

Well this post rubs ME the wrong way as it feels like an excuse to make yourself feel better about derailing the thread rather than supporting the op.

[heyjude]

Dup

[heightsyankee]

Good luck, SN. I hope things settle down for you in whichever direction you want them to. Let us know if we can help.

And don't apologize. You didn't cause the problem. You could have posted "the sky is blue" and someone, some way would make it in to something.

[emmybean]

Jul 31, 2012 14:35:01 GMT -5 heyjude said:

Jul 31, 2012 13:21:51 GMT -5 emmybean said:

Jesus. I am not calling for an apology or even saying that the op would be offended. I'm just saying that it's pretty premature to be offering such assurance when there is no evidence that there is a pg at all, much less one that will be kept. And that premature assumption runs ME the wrong way because it feels like an excuse to make those in that position feel better about themselves, rather than support the op.

Well this post rubs ME the wrong way as it feels like an excuse to make yourself feel better about derailing the thread rather than supporting the op.

You're adorable.

[Deleted]

Whatever the outcome, you have a whole board of awesome people to support you. So go poas!!