You made an assumption that either of us are having unprotected sex with multiple people in a six month period. At least when you started posting about the risk and relating it to he and I that's what I gathered.
Did I write the phrase "stpete, because YOU had multiple unprotected partners"? No. Did I say "because GINGER had multiple unprotected partners?" No. Then ZERO assumptions were made. I was stating that it is risky to have unprotected sex. And considering you have no idea who Ginger has been sleeping with in the last 6 months, you are risk. It is a fact. Not an assumption.
Where in the fuck did you see an assumption? I merely disagreed and said that having unprotected sex was risky. Would you like me to cite the CDC website for you? I'm pretty sure they wouldn't call that a "rumor".
To be fair saying "unprotected sex with multiple people" seemed to imply that you were suggesting stpete was having unprotected sex ... with multiple people.
Unprotected sex makes me uncomfortable unless things are exclusive, but I have done it (not intentionally) and am not proud of it so I feel like a hypocrite to shame other people for doing it. Be safe, stpete.
See my response above. It is a fact, not an assumption. YOU are assuming. I did not write that.
1. Running with knife. 2. Driving with eyes closed. 3. Blow-drying hair while showering. 4. Posting your SSN online. 5. Leaping from plane without parachute.
You know... just a PSA for the whole board. Not directed at any one in particular. *wink!*
See my response above. It is a fact, not an assumption. YOU are assuming. I did not write that.
Did you really just say "YOU are assuming" - to me? I made no assumptions here. I suggested that your post implied something that you're saying you weren't implying. That's all.
I'm not defending stpete here because 1 - she's a big girl and 2 - it's a topic that makes me a little squicky so I can't get defensive over her over something I am not totally on board with.
I do think you & doriswe have solid points - I just think you're coming across way harsh, in a way that shows stpete is in "bitch eating cracker" territory with you guys.
It's unfortunate that the points and genuine concern are being missed, and the thing shining through is the harsh "tone".
Ah, no. What is unfortunate is that I responded to one post to stpete, kept that post factual, and I'm told my tone was harsh. Did you tell JMK that she was harsh when she cautioned achase against having unprotected sex?
Post by jojoandleo on Oct 17, 2014 23:10:42 GMT -5
I like crackers. I like the cheap saltine ones. I especially like to soak them in soup and make them soggy! That's probably flameful. Bitches hate soggy crackers. Imma eat them.
My confession is that I'd rather take a boring board over one where people only come in to be rude and judgmental. Remember when this was a support board?
My confession is that I'd rather take a boring board over one where people only come in to be rude and judgmental. Remember when this was a support board?
I remember being friends with some of these people and them not being needlessly cruel. there is honest, there is brutally honest, and there is just plain cruel. I don't understand being cruel. There is no need for it. I get being frustrated with posters making the same mistakes. I get not liking certain posters. I do not get posting cruel and pointless bullshit for absolutely no reason other than to hurt someone's feelings. What do you gain from that? If you gain self esteem or cool points with your friends, I just feel bad for you.
These confession threads have made me realize how lame and really boring I am. My bestie wants to move to Austin. Normally I would be super sad and begging him to stay. Deep down I'm really really hoping he goes. I think he keeps me down a lot. I love him, but I have so many more supportive friends in my life that a break from him would be nice. He takes a ton of energy out of me.
These confession threads have made me realize how lame and really boring I am. My bestie wants to move to Austin. Normally I would be super sad and begging him to stay. Deep down I'm really really hoping he goes. I think he keeps me down a lot. I love him, but I have so many more supportive friends in my life that a break from him would be nice. He takes a ton of energy out of me.
From everything you've posted about him, it sounds like he's exhausting.
My confession is that I'd rather take a boring board over one where people only come in to be rude and judgmental. Remember when this was a support board?
I remember being friends with some of these people and them not being needlessly cruel. there is honest, there is brutally honest, and there is just plain cruel. I don't understand being cruel. There is no need for it. I get being frustrated with posters making the same mistakes. I get not liking certain posters. I do not get posting cruel and pointless bullshit for absolutely no reason other than to hurt someone's feelings. What do you gain from that? If you gain self esteem or cool points with your friends, I just feel bad for you.
+1....why I don't post much here anymore after getting into it on one of these FFFC bc someone was being mean and rude like this
I remember being friends with some of these people and them not being needlessly cruel. there is honest, there is brutally honest, and there is just plain cruel. I don't understand being cruel. There is no need for it. I get being frustrated with posters making the same mistakes. I get not liking certain posters. I do not get posting cruel and pointless bullshit for absolutely no reason other than to hurt someone's feelings. What do you gain from that? If you gain self esteem or cool points with your friends, I just feel bad for you.
+1....why I don't post much here anymore after getting into it on one of these FFFC bc someone was being mean and rude like this
I'm sorry, that's horrible. I wish you would post more often
My confession is that I'd rather take a boring board over one where people only come in to be rude and judgmental. Remember when this was a support board?
I actually missed what happened and have no idea why some people left the board and I want to know why!!! haha