Post by estrellita on Nov 23, 2014 16:48:54 GMT -5
I posted this on WC also so repeat for everyone over there. So, this guy I briefly dated in HS just had a baby with his GF. They have had a Facebook account for her I guess since August. Complete with posts from "baby" who wasn't even born yet. They just posted a pic of her today napping in her crib. Complete with bumpers, stuffed animals, a blanket over the baby and she's laying on a blanket too. Granted, the blanket is only half on her and she's a newborn so she probably won't be rolling around, but still! They both already have kids, I'm really surprised they think any of this is normal or safe! Am I just being judgy?
I already replied on WC, but you're not judgy. This is part of my job, and I would be educating all over her FB. That is absolutely not safe, especially with a newborn. They move more than you might think.
I already replied on WC, but you're not judgy. This is part of my job, and I would be educating all over her FB. That is absolutely not safe, especially with a newborn. They move more than you might think.
I so badly want to say something but I barely ever talk to him and don't know her and I would rather avoid the drama. It sucks because I don't want anything to happen to that little baby! Maybe I could passive aggressively post an article about SIDS and hope he gets the point? :/
ETA: I posted something on Pinterest about SIDS hoping that he sees the post on FB, haha. Hey, maybe someone else will see it and I can help other parents too! Passive aggressive isn't always a bad thing
I haven't felt the baby kick at all today, and I am freaking out. I know it's silly since It's not like I feel it constantly on other days, but I even tried OJ and laying down and that hasn't worked. He is okay, right? I am 20 weeks.
It's normal. I had 2-3 day stretches where I would not feel her much if at all. I didn't feel regular movement until almost 28 weeks and even now she gets quiet for hours on end here and there.
I haven't felt the baby kick at all today, and I am freaking out. I know it's silly since It's not like I feel it constantly on other days, but I even tried OJ and laying down and that hasn't worked. He is okay, right? I am 20 weeks.
Have you felt him kick? I didn't even feel much movement at 20 weeks but if you feel like something is off, you can always go get monitored in L&D triage for a few hours.