Do you have kids? If not, I think I would be on my way to that motel. If hs car is there, I would be staking the place out to see who he walks out with.
I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope it's not as bad as it seems!
I would have someone at the motel check to see if his or his friends car is in the lot. Then I would drive my ass there myself to check things out and show the staff his picture. I hope you get some answers soon!
I am freaking out for you. Hugs and prayers that he is absolutely fine.
Have you all been arguing? The call to a motel is weird. I would be driving down there and knocking on doors . Did you call the pastor? Associates of the friend he is with?
Also, where is the friend he was with? Has the friend been located? Does the friend have a wife or roommate that can give any clues to where they could be?
And hell to the yes I would drive my ass to that motel. If I found out my husband was making calls to some random motel 30 miles away in the middle of the night, meanwhile not answering calls/texts from me, oh yeah. I would be there in a heartbeat and I don't consider that stalkerish at all.
I hope you get some answers. Please update when you can.
I'm actually sitting in the parking lot of that motel right next to the truck. I'm going to sit here and wait for him to show up and see who he's with.
What the fuck? I would be waiting with a tire iron to beat his ass. Has anything else been going on at home? This seems crazy if it is out of character for him. Sending you so many hugs.
Post by underwaterrhymes on Dec 5, 2014 7:49:11 GMT -5
Did you two ever talk after your conversation the other day? (ETA - I missed what it was about, but you had mentioned you wanted a heart to heart with him.)
Oh ooglie. Oh no. I'm sorry he's doing whatever it is. Are you in a rural area? Is a motel 30 miles away closer to where he had been than home? That could explain the motel on account of drinking. I really hope there's a up and up explanation. Good luck. I'm glad your sister is with you. Eta: if he was calling the motel it seems he could've at least texted you, but there could be reasons why he hasn't, I can't imagine the suspense.
Oh shit. I'm really glad your sister is coming. UWR is right, don't let him manipulate you into thinking you're overreacting. You are totally justified in what you're thinking/feeling/doing, and there is NO excuse for him not calling or texting you back last night.