"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
It has been a rough day. Sometimes I just can't help but wonder WTF is the point God...or whomever/whatever. Bring a child into the world to have to experience that pain. It is so. so. wrong. I don't know how you can help besides being there. Does he have other family? How old is he? I can't imagine being in a horrific car accident, waking up and finding out that your whole remaining family is just gone. Fuck. I hate it so much for him I am so sorry.
Yes... So heartbreaking. Thinking of this boy and your boys.
Oh my, that is horribly sad. If this poor boy is the lone survivor....wow. How old is he? Are there grandparents or family to take care of him? This is heart breaking. ETA: I see he's 19. Such a young age to face the world as a young man alone.