I'm so sorry for your loss. I chose the D&C. It was quick and I wanted everything over. Whatever you decide is the right choice for you and your family.
Thank you again. I am likely going with the d&c, pending more research. After insurance it appears to be less than $1000 and it is worth it not to have to watch it happpen. He said I was on the cusp of when he would recommend against the medicine.
He said the ultrasound dated me at 7w5d. He was confident that there was no heart beat and said that she looked using two wave lengths.